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  1. Hi guys,

    Was told a few minutes ago that the site was down... when I went to check, sure enough the DNS was not resolving.

    The issue was twofold. First, my primary DNS server hiccuped. Second, the secondary and tertiary servers did not pick up the slack, though I still do not know why yet. I am looking in to it and will make sure it does not happen again. I suspect I will be able to find the answer fast enough as those other 2 servers are still not serving pattayatalk.com addresses for some reason. 


  2. 7 minutes ago, Naklua1980 said:

    Hi, it's been a while since I last logged in here. I just came out of a long relationship with an ex pro and realized something like this will never work. I have decided to give dating a try again but since I live in Pattaya it seems to be hard to find any "normal" girls, or at least I have trouble finding them. Do you guys have any advice? I went on Thaifriendly and Thai cupid but these websites cost money. I found a free dating site called Thaimatch.com and that works fine until now, but the amount of girls in Pattaya could be more. Or should I just explore further than just Pattaya? I mean, this website does have a lot of BKK girls it seems... Would they ever be willing to move here? Or would they accept the lifestyle here? Not of me, but the lifestyle of most woman in Pattaya? Any advice is appreciated! .. and I know, staying single is probably the best idea, but thats just not me 55

    Approved your post. I suggest you check out the link for activating your account (upgrading). You will get access to more content that way ?

  3. There is no "time limit", except for the default session timeout limit on the server, which is 20 minutes. 

    But to get around that, all you need to do is have the signin option "remember me" checked, which should work for what your talking about. 

    Also, click on reply again on that thread and see if your text comes back up. It does for me sometimes. 

    Also, another trick I use is if I have to do a long post or reply ill type it in Notepad++ first then copy and paste. 

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  4. No, on PC. I say strange because I did set it to show on the bottom, but figured that was "broke" as I didn't see it. 

    I actually don't want this banner in both places. I am going to try to put a search box at the bottom. That box is way too big for the top, but I think it works better as it allows the user to type in options first (dates, etc). And I don't like that the banner shows prices for multiple nights. It makes some of the places seem way too expensive. Not a very good advertisement IMHO. I am also going to play with their API to see if I create my own banner or ad instead that better fits what our users want - like cheaper places. No sense showing all those 5000 baht a night places. 

    Agoda does have a wide range of really cheap options, including hostels for as little as 140 baht per night. I'm not a fan of hostels, but its the first time I've seen them advertised online. Kinda neat. And there are multiple hotels from around 500 baht per night on there. Again, not sure I would stay there as I'm sure the bed is like a rock, but its a good cheap option for someone on a very limited budget, so its good to show them here. In any case, this is just a test at this point. if it goes well, ill leave it or improve it... if not, will think of something else ?

  5. Hi Guys,

    I just put the first new ad online, and you should have seen it by now, assuming your not ad blocking. 

    Everyone that comes here needs a hotel to stay at. And getting a good deal is much more important than helping the board keep costs covered... now that said, in most cases you can find as good a deal or better using Agoda, so please give it a look for your dates. If the price is the same or better than where you usually book your tickets, please consider using it. We get a commission of the sale price, and while its not very much, it does add up. Over the last year with the ad being located inline in a single forum only its made about $100. Hopefully with the ad more prominent it will get some more activity and actually be worth the hassle. I will monitor it and decide if it needs to stay or go away based on its performance. And annoying PMs saying "wtf is that ugly thing doing in my way" haha. 

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  6. You might be better going with a Android box of some kind. Cheaper, more options and more reliable these days. Satellite is an old expensive technology. 

    Of course I have no idea if there are hacked/cracked receiver boxes available. If so, then satellite may be ok. I just can't see paying a huge monthly fee for it these days. 

  7. On 12/25/2018 at 4:29 PM, js007 said:

    It's hard to imagine that a new mattress would be all that terrible.  I've stayed in places with the opposite problem.  Old, saggy, soft mattresses.  Not good for my back.  

    No, its not. 

    Our power went out one night a while back... was about 6 months or so ago now. I had just taken nyquil, and I have a really hard time sleeping without aircon... so I left it to the GF to find us a room for the night. The place she found was cheap - 700 baht for the night... place was nice enough, just what you expect from a hotel. 

    But the mattress. Holy shit was it hard. Like sleeping on a slab of wood. It killed my back. I woke up after about 2-3 hours in some serious pain. Got up and went back home and slept without Aircon until the power came back on later that morning. 

    Yes, there are mattresses that are way too hard to be even remotely comfortable. I hope they fix the problem. Dynasty was my favorite hotel for my first several trip here, until I found Resident Garden. I still have fond memories of the place. 

  8. 32 minutes ago, fufu308 said:

    thanks for the pictures and information, I was gutted on my last trip as I missed the opening of this new mall by a week due to my schedule.  So its definately somewhere i'd like to visit on my next trip ?

    Read here: 


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    Please understand that this is NOT a porn site. If you are looking for porn you will be disappointed. Save yourself and the Webmaster some time and don't apply. Membership is restricted to people over 18 years of age, and is subject to verification as detailed below. Membership is free.

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    You will be prompted to supply an Email Address, which will require verification before the account is approved, so it must be a real and working email address. Please note: At the time of this writing, Yahoo.com email addresses are experiencing a problem receiving emails. If you use Yahoo, and do not receive a email notification, please send a email to me directly at flbbar@gmail.com and I will manually approve your registrations email verification. (Email from the same address, of course). If you do not follow the instructions in the Validation email (or the alternate step of emailing me directly), your account will not be approved. 

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    After following Step 1, you will be a Level 1 member and eligible to apply for full membership by following Step 2 below.

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    The reason I wish to join the Pattaya Talk Members Only Site is .... (give reasons)


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  11. 14 minutes ago, BigusDicus said:

    Whew!  Figuring things out can be a challenge for the dyslectic!  I shall muddle through.

    One thing I am noticing upper left hand corner is it says the site is not secure?  Maybe the old one was the same and I just did not notice?

    The old site had a button something like "View new" where you could see a listing of everything new regardless of topics, etc.?  Is the same thing on this site somewhere too?



    The secure thing will be fixed soon. Am waiting for the background processes to finish before I enforce the SSL change. 

    For the other, try this: Activity --> Unread Content


  12. UPDATE: The email issue has been resolved. The contact form now works properly. 

    Important: I know at least 2 people sent contact form requests that were not received, and 3 others used the forgot password link and did not receive their emails. Due to the nature of the system I do not know who these people were and I cannot resend that info. Hopefully whoever you are you are reading this and will try again now :)

  13. UPDATE: Email is now back up and working. 

    For the time being, until I can get a count of the number of emails we send out daily, I am using sendgrid for email service, to ensure that they all get out ok. Its free for 40k emails for the first month, then 100 per day (for free). If we go over the 100 per day (very likely), ill have to either change up or pay a monthly fee. Will see how it goes. 

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