weareacouple

you are right there, church friends are the most judgemental on what we feel is normal behavior

First of all I am the husband half of "weareacouple" however my wife feels the same about the subject. We have been married for 25 years and we admitted early on that we were both addicted to sex. When we are together the sex is great however we both travel a lot and we both use porn and masturbation to get what we need. When we discuss it with our friends (especially church friends) most of them say it is wrong and even cheating on our mate. I would love to have an open and honest discussion on the subject.