HeartBern

:-/ Never yet been to Thailand, but I met and fell for a Thai girl in my homeland (UK), recently. Don't know her history, apart from what she's willing to reveal (couldn't care less - it's the now and the future that counts - she could've been the greatest agogo/beer bar/coffee bar girl ever for all I care - she doesn't know mine either, has to be said). She's insisting that I go to Thailand (without her) and expects me to do the things that solo men do in Thailand. Why? Is it confidence on her part? Is it so that I can "get it out of my [male] system?" Is it a test to see whether I'll go or not as she knows that after half a lifetime dating caucasions and being married to a caucasion, but now having experienced an oriental, I'd hardly ever consider a western lady again? I'm confused.