This is from the "Rough Guide to Bangkok" forum, posted on May 7th:
Default Re: Travel advisory
We advise against all but essential travel to, or through, the far southern provinces of Pattani, Yala, Narathiwat and Songkhla, due to the insurgency in these areas. See the Terrorism / Security section of this Travel
I have ignored this advice for the last 7 years,why take any notice about what these idiots tell you.Its Thailand not Somalia common sense keeps you safe.In the areas listed above more likely to be bitten to death by mosquitoes,or hit on the head by a falling durian.
More falangs are killed in Thailand by motorbike accidents,or jumping from high places.
So avoid motorbikes and high buildings and you will probably stay safe.
Others were making similar comments earlier in the month. Now that I'm taking a closer look, there are a few who have changed their tune recently. Looks like there are about 5k people in the Red Shirt Rally Site, many of them women and children. They seem to be on the verge of dismantling the standoff and I hope that's the case;
Trust me, I am definitely a sissy. But I was convinced that if I stayed away from the containment zone, I'd be perfectly safe.
However, you're right. That's why I changed my travel plans. And if my ticket was refundable, I'd have canceled altogether. It's definitely not worth "finding out" whether it's risky or not hanging out and playing at Soi Cowboy (about a mile away) while all this crap is going on.