The Go Go Experience

[villaman 15]

Pattaya Beer Garden use a red and green beer mat system although all the girls are freelancers

[sydneysteve 1]

When I visit a bar and decide to buy a lady a LD I see it as respectful for having the lady sit with me. I hold no expectation beyond that. If I'm interested in BFing her I will make the appropriate enquiries in a short period of time. If we come to an arrangement we usually have a few more drinks before leaving. If she says she cannot (for whatever reason) that's her call, she's under no obligation to go with me. I just move on. No problem.

 

If I have no intention of barfining her I will say something which indicates to her that I'm just here for a short while before moving on to another bar. So I limit myself to 1 LD. I digress here, I don't know about what others think but it irritates me when a lady orders eg a shot of tequila. When I buy a LD I like the lady to order a drink that is going to take more than 3 seconds to drink. Just a bugbear of mine. On my recent visit I told more than 1 lady that if I buy a second LD I'm not paying for a shot drink. Of course my demand was complied with lol

[statman208 41]

I understand your issue with the shot drinks. Along those same lines, I don't particularly like when they order juice. However, I think it is a bit controlling to offer a girl a LD and then tell her what she has to order.

[jacko 8,813]

I understand your issue with the shot drinks. Along those same lines, I don't particularly like when they order juice. However, I think it is a bit controlling to offer a girl a LD and then tell her what she has to order.

I wouldn't lose sleep over being controlling where these girls are concerned.

Not that I tell a girl what to order, she takes care of that, but if it is the 3 nanosecond-eye-wash-glass of tequila and then nags for more I might suggest she move on to richer pickings. Most soon pick up on the fact of whether or not a John is an easy mark or needs a more subtle approach.

You can actually be in control of the situation you know, money trumps pussy in this town.

[ThaiLearner 18]

Some of the Go Go Bars in Town employ the "show girl" type models who are more than happy for you to buy them a drink or two

but you cant bf after all they are only paid to dance?

 

Perhaps they don't want to go with you

[sydneysteve 1]

statman208 Quote "I understand your issue with the shot drinks. Along those same lines, I don't particularly like when they order juice. However, I think it is a bit controlling to offer a girl a LD and then tell her what she has to order."

 

I certainly don't suggest what the lady orders first time. That's up to her. If she wants a shot, up to her. I just say, if you want me to buy you a second LD then please order a drink that is going to take a comparative time to drink to my beer or spirit drink. I just feel guilty if the lady does not have a drink in front of her whilst I'm talking with her. If she just wants to down shots then I figure she's just after her LD commissions which equates to no good for me. On my recent trip when this happened I explained my feelings to the lady and they were all happy to comply on their 2nd LD. I'm not yet as firm-minded as what Jacko says and maybe others would say harden up. But I have feelings just as these ladies do, regardless of the fact that their out to make money. I just believe in being diplomatic (and yes I'm probably a soft cock to some). IMHO

[JONPAT 222]

I ask BEFORE buying a ladydrink if she goes with customers. A 'No' is no drink, a 'Yes' is a ladydrink. The lady drink isn't for her companionship, it is so that I have a chance to vet her, is she doesn't go with customers then why waste my time and/or money, no vetting is necessary if I know she isn't going with me.