Would you bring your uk girlfriend to pattaya

[gs joe 1,770]

I don't remember the OP saying he loved the woman. One could argue that if he did, he wouldn't travel to Thailand to sleep with prostitutes.

 

I don't remember the OP saying he was coming to Pattaya to sleep with prostitutes.

 

Joe

[aarmitage9 0]

After reading the replies so far here is what decision I have made. 

 

I'm gonna bring her 

 

The way I see it is,  pattaya is gonna make or break a relationship and I'm hoping it will make it. I mean some of the pics of mine and stories most girls would of run a mile so things are pretty promising so far. 

 

Now if she loves it I will be rubbing shoulders with you guys again in the future 

 

If she says it was ok but not my cup of tea go on your own next time that's a bonus. 

 

If she hates it I will go to phuket lol

 

And if we split up over it then I will be back to traveling to pattaya with just my pals or myself again. (it's not the end of the world)

 

But I think something I have to remember is whatever the out come of this trip it would be good to know it before we take our relationship in the uk any further like having kids or marriage. 

 

Thanks for all the replies see you in June 

[Cinali 8]

Maybe,

 

I also took my wife to Pattaya.We spend 2 nights.I took her to Angelwitch and What s up. She enjoyed soaping girls.She tipped 20bht every girl she liked at What's up. Then we hit discos. As she is very jealous ,I couldnt touch any BG.But we are end of our 30'S and been married for 13 years.

But I still think that it s very risky for a fresh relation.

[butterflyblonde 30]

After reading the replies so far here is what decision I have made. 

 

I'm gonna bring her 

 

The way I see it is,  pattaya is gonna make or break a relationship and I'm hoping it will make it. I mean some of the pics of mine and stories most girls would of run a mile so things are pretty promising so far. 

 

Now if she loves it I will be rubbing shoulders with you guys again in the future 

 

If she says it was ok but not my cup of tea go on your own next time that's a bonus. 

 

If she hates it I will go to phuket lol

And if we split up over it then I will be back to traveling to pattaya with just my pals or myself again. (it's not the end of the world)

 

But I think something I have to remember is whatever the out come of this trip it would be good to know it before we take our relationship in the uk any further like having kids or marriage. 

 

Thanks for all the replies see you in June 

 

I know of a counsellor who has streams of swinging couples coming to see her with marital problems, it's a risky business. However, reading that line I've highlited in your post, it seems you don't actually care that much for her anyway. So I think you have answered your own question.

[Sailfast 503]

After reading the replies so far here is what decision I have made.

 

I'm gonna bring her

 

The way I see it is, pattaya is gonna make or break a relationship and I'm hoping it will make it. I mean some of the pics of mine and stories most girls would of run a mile so things are pretty promising so far.

 

Now if she loves it I will be rubbing shoulders with you guys again in the future

 

If she says it was ok but not my cup of tea go on your own next time that's a bonus.

 

If she hates it I will go to phuket lol

 

And if we split up over it then I will be back to traveling to pattaya with just my pals or myself again. (it's not the end of the world)

 

But I think something I have to remember is whatever the out come of this trip it would be good to know it before we take our relationship in the uk any further like having kids or marriage.

 

Thanks for all the replies see you in June

 

Sounds like you have the situation in hand.

 

FWIW; IF you are looking for a true bisexual experience for your wife, It's not that easy to find girls to go with both of you. Don't get me wrong, they are out there but it's not as easy as you think. Some girls will say they are into it, but the performance for your girlfriend may be less than stellar.

We had ZERO luck on Koh Samui. Pattaya was much better.

Had some decent offers and some amazing "in bar" foreplay between my falang g/f and dancers, but the Bangkok prices where a turn off so at the time we passed over some experiences that I would probably have enjoyed.

 

 

If she is easy going and has an open mind you will have an amazing time.

 

Have fun.

[Trop 9]

Hello

 

It sounds to me like you are trying to decide whether to take sand to the beach or not.

 

Trop

[billsmith98 1]

You are kidding ....correct

[Siam Sam 964]

Unless your wife is extremely open minded about sex I wouldn't bother taking her there. She may well give you the impression she is cool with what you have done in Thailand and what goes on there but the reality could be something very different. In my experience there is only a tiny minority of Western women that can deal with Pattaya and the chances are that you will row with her when you go there. How will she cope with women blatantly flirting with you and coming onto you irrespective of the fact you have a girlfriend in tow? Throw alcohol into that mix and you have a recipe for disaster........you'll probably find that you'll spend a lot of the time rowing with your girlfriend when you should be having fun, hell, I row with my wife every time we go Pattaya...... and she is Thai! You know yourself that there is so much temptation in Pattaya and you'll probably want to sneak off to do something, not to mention the fact you'll probably be thinking about that hot girl you walked past in Soi 7 when you fuck your missus at the end of the night.

 

I remember when I was planning a trip to Thailand with friends many years back when I still hadn't been there and the plan was to take my then girlfriend there with a group of lads that had already experienced Thailand. Looking back I can't believe how ridiculous this now seems and I often wonder how many days we would have lasted before we would have split up had we gone ahead with the trip! If you love your wife implicitly and have no doubt you will stray then go for it but if there is even the slightest doubt in your mind then I wouldn't bother, you know as well as I do what it is like in Pattaya.

[dtyolmn 4]

Not unless you have an open relationship and she is bi, willing to go for 3 somes or what ever comes along.

[monochromeman 41]

well i did this once. well twice i think.

 

first time we did bkk which was fine and went upto Surin which was fine. And the PTY which was a disaster. I couldn't leave the bleedin hotel room w/out her following me. not even nipping down to reception for a beer. 'that woman in the travel agent next door is giving you the eye" etc etc. Worst time I've ever had.

 

next time was just for a week or so when i was in PTY for 3 months. that was a nice break from TG's.

 

[edit: oh and mine knew i'd been coming here for yrs and what goes on. but actually seeing it herself up close changed her attitude to me coming back!!!!. i still did mind]

Edited September 3, 2011 by monochromeman

[dirtydawg 11]

Hey, i have had the hottest sexual experiences of my life with my wife in Pattaya.

 

Nothing finer than having your woman lick your balls while you fuck a teenage bg from behind.

[garibaldi 0]

I have had 15 solo trips since June 2002 and had a blast everytime.

 

This Nov, I am taking my live-in UK gf and we are both thoroughly looking forward to it.

 

I won't be fannying about as i have no need too, but will have a few beer sessions with the lads on my own. Will probably do a Darkside tour with Adam.