Problem with moderator-Sailfast

[bigdelta 46]

I received my 1st warning-25%-after 7 years here beacuse I posted,in his opinion,a racist remark.

Here's his reply:

 

You made a post that broke the rules.

I deleted it and sent gave you a 25% warning.

 

You seem to be asking me to explain a post that you made. Sorry I can't do that.

If you are looking for a quote of your post, sorry, I didn't save it. I sift through hundreds of posts a week and don't remember them all exactly, nor do I care to.

 

Feel free to contact anyone you choose. If Martin wants to remove the warning he will. I'm just a moderator, he makes the ultimate decisions and I encourage you to contact him if you feel I have treated you unfairly.

 

If you feel I made a mistake, or someone posted under your handle, or you made a comment you regret for whatever reason then we can discuss it. If you simply made a stupid post that deserved a warning, then so be it. The warning is not the end of the world and it will go away.

 

Regards,

 

Sailfast.

 

Gee,if I indeed made a racist remark,I'd surely like to see what qualifies,but,alas,I can't!

And my favorite part of his lame retort,"nor do I care to".

Well excuse me,I guess you cared enough to slam me with NO evidence.

Having a bad day,were you wasted,or just a wanker?

I do feel free and have contacted MM already.

You should be excused from the moderator position because obviously you're doing a poor job. (1st time I've used that smilie-seems appropriate,doesn't it?)

[Obsession 571]

So whos all mods? I didnt think there were any until a post about LBJ, and now Sailfast.

 

What was racist? Id like to know the parameters as to whats considered racist. What did you post roughly. I know you cant repeat it

[villayouth 37]

I received my 1st warning-25%-after 7 years here beacuse I posted,in his opinion,a racist remark.

Here's his reply:

 

You made a post that broke the rules.

I deleted it and sent gave you a 25% warning.

 

You seem to be asking me to explain a post that you made. Sorry I can't do that.

If you are looking for a quote of your post, sorry, I didn't save it. I sift through hundreds of posts a week and don't remember them all exactly, nor do I care to.

 

Feel free to contact anyone you choose. If Martin wants to remove the warning he will. I'm just a moderator, he makes the ultimate decisions and I encourage you to contact him if you feel I have treated you unfairly.

 

If you feel I made a mistake, or someone posted under your handle, or you made a comment you regret for whatever reason then we can discuss it. If you simply made a stupid post that deserved a warning, then so be it. The warning is not the end of the world and it will go away.

 

Regards,

 

Sailfast.

 

Gee,if I indeed made a racist remark,I'd surely like to see what qualifies,but,alas,I can't!

And my favorite part of his lame retort,"nor do I care to".

Well excuse me,I guess you cared enough to slam me with NO evidence.

Having a bad day,were you wasted,or just a wanker?

I do feel free and have contacted MM already.

You should be excused from the moderator position because obviously you're doing a poor job. (1st time I've used that smilie-seems appropriate,doesn't it?)

 

 

he must be a Paki

[midlifecrisis 4,048]

I would be curious about what one moderator "judged" to be racist.

 

In addition. sailfast could have contacted you and said he believed it to be a racist remark and deleted it but not warned you.

 

Some words in common usage are actually racist in origin for instance. Some people may not even be aware of it when they say it. If you say somebody "jewed" you in a business deal, that is an obvious referance to Jewish people and most of us know that but if you replace "jewed" with "gyped" many would not know that it refers to the Gypsies in the same manner originally.

The original meaning has been lost over time as refers to Gypsies but as refers to Jews.

 

Intent has a lot to do with whether or not someone should get a warning.

 

As an aside, what is with all these moderators and complaints of warnings all of a sudden?

 

Also, in which forum was it?

 

Moderators, the board existed a long time before you. If true, why would you try to be more heavy handed than the original and solo moderator MM? Is it orders from MM or are you just imposing your will? I am curious to know the new guidlines here, posted guidelines were just "guidelines" before and not commandments written in stone. Please elaborate before we all end up with unexpected warnings.

Edited June 23, 2009 by midlifecrisis

[RobinBay 0]

Must be pretty bad to get a warning after some of the stuff i've read on here.

[midlifecrisis 4,048]

The real issue is not seeming arbitrary. If mods are going to enforce a higher standard of behavior, that standard should be enunciated before warnings are posted. Then, the standard should be consistant.

 

Lately it seems warnings are being given for behavior that, even though posted as a violation, has been accepted as the norm for years.

 

Giving warnings is not the answer. It just pisses people off. Educating people in advance that changes are occuring is what should have happened. Giving someone a warning and then not being able to back it up with precise information is wrong.

[Sailfast 503]

LTGTR,

 

Funny you:

1) Post my PM to you, yet you leave out all the crap in the four PM's you sent me.

2) Don't include your original comment.

 

I simply deleted the post because anyone who has been on this board long enough should know better. I'm not here to teach people how to act. That's why it's a warning and not a ban.

 

For the record, if LTGTR had simply come to me and said, "hey, I was out of line. Can you take me off warning?" It probably would have been done and no one would have been the wiser. Seems like LTGTR is up for some shit stirring. That's sad.

 

I've given about 3-4 warnings in total since I have been on board as a moderator. Every one of them have been justified.

 

No I'm not going to repeat the comment. If LTGTR wants to repeat what he said, then that's up to him.

 

In case anyone is wondering, the reason I did not post LTGTR's ranting PM's to me is that PM stands for PRIVATE MESSAGE. I don't post them.

[MM 6,562]

A warning is just that. A warning for something posted on the board. It is NOT an invitation to enter into a dialog with the moderator. Moderating the board takes a lot of time from each of us who are doing it...it's very rare that a warning is given out...and they are not the end of the world. It's a warning. Leave it at that.

 

Protesting the warning by saying "somebody else said worse" is not an excuse. We can't parse and analyze every thread and figure out what is better and what is worse. It's should be apparent that, if you get a warning, it has to do with you, not anyone else.

 

FYI, Sailfast moderates Politics and Religion (thank god!), LBJ is temporarily a global moderator (meaning all forums), and I am still here. Both of these guys are fair minded and level headed. If you got a warning from either of them, you deserved it.

 

BTW, nobody is really moderating Battles and Arguments.

[glynbuk 29]

he must be a Paki

 

 

Don't forget that is a Derogatory term / racist remark / ethnic slur

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_ethnic_slurs

 

Not something in keeping with an International board /community.

[midlifecrisis 4,048]

A warning is just that. A warning for something posted on the board. It is NOT an invitation to enter into a dialog with the moderator. Moderating the board takes a lot of time from each of us who are doing it...it's very rare that a warning is given out...and they are not the end of the world. It's a warning. Leave it at that.

 

Protesting the warning by saying "somebody else said worse" is not an excuse. We can't parse and analyze every thread and figure out what is better and what is worse. It's should be apparent that, if you get a warning, it has to do with you, not anyone else.

 

FYI, Sailfast moderates Politics and Religion (thank god!), LBJ is temporarily a global moderator (meaning all forums), and I am still here. Both of these guys are fair minded and level headed. If you got a warning from either of them, you deserved it.

 

BTW, nobody is really moderating Battles and Arguments.

Why are they listed as participants? Why are they not listed as moderators? Why was nothing mentioned (that I have seen) that we would be held to a higher standard than before?

 

I think some of the complaints I have read members feel blindsided. The sudden change seems arbitrary and inconsistant to those who got a sudden and unexpected warning. It is not the warning per se but the sudden change in policy.

[joekicker 53]

I think Pattaya Pages should close down and then reopen as Moderators Central. It's a lot more important than shagging and gossiping and Pattaya, that's for sure.

 

You want a warning? Here's a warning. The reason I do exactly *_one_* Pattaya board is that it doesn't have this phuocking personal victimisation bullspit which is the chief feature of the Pattaya boards I used to look at.

 

No one got fined, no one got stopped, no one got barred, no one got promoted, no one got paid, no one proved a gahdam thing. Someone got caught breaking a rule. And?

 

Move on ferkrighsake. If it's so horrible, move on elsewhere. There are 844,582,965 forums you haven't even looked at yet. But move on.

[bigdelta 46]

LTGTR,

 

Funny you:

1) Post my PM to you, yet you leave out all the crap in the four PM's you sent me.

2) Don't include your original comment.

 

I simply deleted the post because anyone who has been on this board long enough should know better. I'm not here to teach people how to act. That's why it's a warning and not a ban.

 

For the record, if LTGTR had simply come to me and said, "hey, I was out of line. Can you take me off warning?" It probably would have been done and no one would have been the wiser. Seems like LTGTR is up for some shit stirring. That's sad.

 

I've given about 3-4 warnings in total since I have been on board as a moderator. Every one of them have been justified.

 

No I'm not going to repeat the comment. If LTGTR wants to repeat what he said, then that's up to him.

 

In case anyone is wondering, the reason I did not post LTGTR's ranting PM's to me is that PM stands for PRIVATE MESSAGE. I don't post them.

 

Please,your Highness,do post the "crap" you're referring to which I sent.Unlike you,I have nothing to hide.

You really are thick.How could I come to you and say,"hey,I was out of line",when I have no clue what you're referring to?Duh!

Next.

[bigdelta 46]

A warning is just that. A warning for something posted on the board. It is NOT an invitation to enter into a dialog with the moderator. Moderating the board takes a lot of time from each of us who are doing it...it's very rare that a warning is given out...and they are not the end of the world. It's a warning. Leave it at that.

 

Protesting the warning by saying "somebody else said worse" is not an excuse. We can't parse and analyze every thread and figure out what is better and what is worse. It's should be apparent that, if you get a warning, it has to do with you, not anyone else.

 

FYI, Sailfast moderates Politics and Religion (thank god!), LBJ is temporarily a global moderator (meaning all forums), and I am still here. Both of these guys are fair minded and level headed. If you got a warning from either of them, you deserved it.

 

BTW, nobody is really moderating Battles and Arguments.

 

Just so we're clear here-I DID NOT EVER say or write ,"somebody else said something worse".If I did,I honestly don't remember.

NO,I did't deserve it ,MM.Because neither he or you can give anyone here,including me,what I posted that was out of line.Strictly arbitrary on your/his part.

So I guess you're taking the easy way out and not answering the requests (above replies) for guidelines.Figures.

BTW,stick your warnings.

Edited June 24, 2009 by LTGTR

[Obsession 571]

Please,your Highness,do post the "crap" you're referring to which I sent.Unlike you,I have nothing to hide.

You really are thick.How could I come to you and say,"hey,I was out of line",when I have no clue what you're referring to?Duh!

Next.

 

Sailfast said you could repeat your racist comment for us to see. What was it? Id like to know how far we can go as Brits can hardly talk about good old home without mentioning dozens of different nationalities/ races that are taking over our homeland

[jacko 8,822]

Sailfast said you could repeat your racist comment for us to see. What was it? Id like to know how far we can go as Brits can hardly talk about good old home without mentioning dozens of different nationalities/ races that are taking over our homeland

Yes, and we enjoyed this platform to vent our discontent, a freedom 'not permitted' in our homeland!

Have to get back to 'grumblimg mumblings' in the smoke room!

Edited June 25, 2009 by jacko

[Obsession 571]

Yes, and we enjoyed this platform to vent our discontent, a freedom 'not permitted' in our homeland!

Have to get back to 'grumblimg mumblings' in the smoke room!

 

Exactly

[Firepole 181]

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Edited June 25, 2009 by Firepole

[CheshireTom 1,377]

The obvious problem occurs when a BM has now idea which post has earned him a warning in the first place. How are you meant to curtail repeat behaviour when you don't know what has offended the Mods in the first place.

[Sailfast 503]

OK, since this 25% warning is turning into such an issue with members in good standing and LTGTR seems not mind airing PM's, I will explain. Here is the long boring version;

 

LTGTR started a new one liner thread in the politics and religion forum containing the word "nigger".

 

I deleted the post and LTGTR was given a 25% warning. Not a big deal in my world. To those who have never recieved a warning, they come with a message explaining the reason for the warning.

 

LTGTR PMs me twice on June 22nd:

1. "Care to explain my racist remark that I received my 1st warning for after how many years here?"

2. The second PM is a very long rant about Arab women in burkas on a flight trying to touch his child and an air marshal upgrading him to business class.

 

My Reply:

"Now why should I explain your racist remark?" Taken in context, I open my messages and have two, one a long rant about Arabs and the other asking me to explain his remark. Sounds like a wind up to me.

 

LTGTR PM's me twice on June 23rd:

1. First of all,I don't even kow what entry you're referring to and second and most obvious to all but you,you're the moderator who issued the warning! If you can't do your job properly,let me know ad I'll contact Martin on your behalf."

2. "What racist remark are you referring to?"

 

My Reply to the first PM:

"You made a post that broke the rules.

I deleted it and sent gave you a 25% warning.

 

You seem to be asking me to explain a post that you made. Sorry I can't do that.

If you are looking for a quote of your post, sorry, I didn't save it. I sift through hundreds of posts a week and don't remember them all exactly, nor do I care to.

 

Feel free to contact anyone you choose. If Martin wants to remove the warning he will. I'm just a moderator, he makes the ultimate decisions and I encourage you to contact him if you feel I have treated you unfairly.

 

If you feel I made a mistake, or someone posted under your handle, or you made a comment you regret for whatever reason then we can discuss it. If you simply made a stupid post that deserved a warning, then so be it. The warning is not the end of the world and it will go away.

 

Regards,

 

Sailfast."

 

By the time LTGTR gets around to simply asking the question he should have asked in the first place, he took the entire issue public before I had a chance to reply and the story plays out from here at the top of the thread.

 

I think the entire thing is just a wind up.

Edited June 25, 2009 by Sailfast

[bigdelta 46]

OK, since this 25% warning is turning into such an issue with members in good standing and LTGTR seems not mind airing PM's, I will explain. Here is the long boring version;

 

LTGTR started a new one liner thread in the politics and religion forum containing the word "nigger".

 

I deleted the post and LTGTR was given a 25% warning. Not a big deal in my world. To those who have never recieved a warning, they come with a message explaining the reason for the warning.

 

LTGTR PMs me twice on June 22nd:

1. "Care to explain my racist remark that I received my 1st warning for after how many years here?"

2. The second PM is a very long rant about Arab women in burkas on a flight trying to touch his child and an air marshal upgrading him to business class.

 

My Reply:

"Now why should I explain your racist remark?"

 

LTGTR PM's me twice on June 23rd:

1. First of all,I don't even kow what entry you're referring to and second and most obvious to all but you,you're the moderator who issued the warning! If you can't do your job properly,let me know ad I'll contact Martin on your behalf."

2. "What racist remark are you referring to?"

 

My Reply to the first PM:

"You made a post that broke the rules.

I deleted it and sent gave you a 25% warning.

 

You seem to be asking me to explain a post that you made. Sorry I can't do that.

If you are looking for a quote of your post, sorry, I didn't save it. I sift through hundreds of posts a week and don't remember them all exactly, nor do I care to.

 

Feel free to contact anyone you choose. If Martin wants to remove the warning he will. I'm just a moderator, he makes the ultimate decisions and I encourage you to contact him if you feel I have treated you unfairly.

 

If you feel I made a mistake, or someone posted under your handle, or you made a comment you regret for whatever reason then we can discuss it. If you simply made a stupid post that deserved a warning, then so be it. The warning is not the end of the world and it will go away.

 

Regards,

 

Sailfast."

 

At this point he took the entire issue public and the story plays out from here at the top of the thread.

I "believe" I remember the post now.Not word for word,but the crux of it was about using the term"niggered it up",sayig we could no loger use that term because we have a black President,IIRC.I never used the term in a degrading manner-it was just in the context of the joke It was a cut and paste and was humorous.I would NEVER use that term,either spoken or ritten.And surely not off-color-no pun inteded.

And since you refuse to tell the whole story,I will,regarding my 2nd PM.

"2. The second PM is a very long rant about Arab women in burkas on a flight trying to touch his child and an air marshal upgrading him to business class".It was an example I used to show your lack of consistancy in moderating.The above was NOT my post,but from someone else on this forum.So surely your memory is poor or as you stated earlier,and I quote,"I just don't care".

As a matter of fact,the cut and paste I used was from an e-mail from a BLACK friend of mine.He surely didn't think it was off-COLOR! And once again,after 7 years,my 1st warning of any kind,especially racially oriented.

Since you originally could not remember the offending term and MM came to your rescue by providing the offending term,hopefully you'll extend the courtesy of a PM in the future as,I quote once again,"To those who have never recieved a warning, they come with a message explaining the reason for the warning".

Gee,I must have missed that PM,sinkfast.

The LEAST I expect from a moderator is consistancy.You've failed miserably.

Why don't you or MM man-up and post the offending one liner here for all to judge?Thought so.

Next.

Edited June 25, 2009 by LTGTR

[Sailfast 503]

I "believe" I remember the post now.It was a cut and paste and was humorous.I would NEVER use that term,either spoken or written.

Well thanks for clearing that up. LMAO.

[bigdelta 46]

Well thanks for clearing that up. LMAO.

Keep laughing sinkfast because you've got a plenty of ass to go!

[bigdelta 46]

Well thanks for clearing that up. LMAO.

Just about everything confuses you,huh?

Edited June 25, 2009 by LTGTR

[Obsession 571]

Thanks for clearing that up.

 

The N word will get deleted and probably warned on any forum unless of course your a rapper with a recent African lineage. They all have Tourettes and say it every second word

 

Say the N word in the UK and you will lose your job. If it gets shouted at a football match, they launch a police enquiry. Tell the police your granny got mugged, and they will ask you to email them about it. Its a funny old world.

[bigdelta 46]

Thanks for clearing that up.

 

The N word will get deleted and probably warned on any forum unless of course your a rapper with a recent African lineage. They all have Tourettes and say it every second word

 

Say the N word in the UK and you will lose your job. If it gets shouted at a football match, they launch a police enquiry. Tell the police your granny got mugged, and they will ask you to email them about it. Its a funny old world.

To be clear once more,I don't use that word.I just cut and pasted an e-mail I rec'd from a BLACK friend regarding no longer being able to use the phrase,"niggered something up",and offered replacent phrases,IIRC;obviously in reference to the president of the US.No one was called that word,it wasn't used in a derogitory manner,ect.

I'm still waiting on an admission by sinkfast that he failed to send a PM both prior to and after the warning,thereby failing in his responsibilities as a moderator.

And MM or sinkfast,once again,time to man-up and post that horrible ditty I posted.And MM,I know you have to back your mods right or wrong,but step up here and post it to show how wrong he was.Or take the easy way out.....