Siam Sam

V for Vendetta

28 Weeks Later

Considering this is a mongers forum I was surprised my TR did as well as it did but I think if people take the time to read it there is a lot of relevant information there about many different aspects to Thailand. If you want my honest opinion on your situation then I have to agree with jacko, I don't think you should bother. It seems like an awful lot of hassle to go to just to spend two weeks with your girl in your home country. Why not just spend the time together somewhere in Thailand? Somewhere like Chiang Mai? I know why you want to do this, and it's probably because you want her to get a feel for your culture and you also want to see if it is possible you two could live together in your home country. Two weeks IMHO isn't enough time to establish that. The thing that worries me is that you still pay her money when you have sex with her and that means that you are both clear as to the true nature of your relationship, which is more of an "arrangement" than a relationship. Continue your relationship with her in Thailand but give her the acid test......tell her you're not prepared to pay her any more when you have sex with her. See what her response to that is. For me, it could well be the thing that will tell you exactly where your relationship is going....... I'm sure you learned a lot from your experience. Thanks for your very honest post. Losing? Winning? What are you talking about? Is this how you see things? All I see is someone who is sad enough to come on a mongers forum, criticise somebody else for believing they have a "girl that is different" and then, lo and behold you announce that your wife is really the one that is "different" because she works for the Thai ambassador in New York. Priceless. As for your wife, whether it's true what you say about her or not I think you should save it for someone who cares.........just read the rest of the posts in this thread where people are criticising you and calling you a wanker etc. I have just read through the thread again and can't find any disparaging posts aimed at me except the garbage that you're coming out with......and you think you're winning? I'm not saying my girl is different in the purest sense of the phrase because I have already made it clear that she used to work in NEP, something I have no qualms about whatsoever. If I'm being honest I quite like that fact. I used to monger in Thailand a lot so I'm exactly the sort of person that helps to perpetuate the sex industry in Thailand, exactly why I have no qualms about it OR marrying a girl from it as I have my own past too and it's probably way more chequered than my wife's. I DO know that I haven't ever sent money to her family and in almost two years of knowing her before she came to live here I only sent her money on a few occasions. Does that make her different? Does she qualify? Oh, and your wife is still a whore. As you said, Thai bar girls have been a joke in the Western world for a long time now. Ever wonder how she got that promotion?

So let me get this right? We started this exchange by you laughing at me because my girl is different and it ends with you claiming that you are in actual fact the one that really has a Thai wife that is "different?" Priceless.....and what a role reversal in such a sort space of time? When I married mine, I had to go to the "Ministry of Foreign Affairs." Maybe that was the government department your lady works in? My sides really are now "shaking with laughter"........ Oh shit I edited my post again..............

Face it, she's still a whore. I edited this post so I could put something in bold. I edit posts all the time. You have to when you worry about the bastardisation of English.

So now you're saying that your wife has never been a whore either? That she really is different? Fantastic. Mine used to work in Nana Plaza. Yours works for "the government" but not just in Thailand, "internationally" too. Ho hum.

Would you like a straw Sir?

The fact that it's an "international" company for added credence............

So effectively, your girl's "different" too? How fucking ironic!!!!!!!!! I'm not saying my sides are literally shaking with laughter but I'm definitely laughing.

So using that rational, a girl from a bar can never love someone? Interesting...... I always laugh at people that judge others when they are so very ignorant to the circumstances involved. You don't know me, and as I said before this isn't the site for this guy to be looking for encouragement when it comes to this matter. You may be interested to know that when I first met my wife she certainly had a past but she wasn't involved in p4p then......she was sponsored, granted, but the fact remains that she wasn't involved in it when I first knew her. FACT two: I have NEVER had to send her family money and in many ways I have been better off when my wife came to live here......but again, I won't go into details, all I can say is you are ignorant to the circumstances involved. My wife works, has her own money and isn't afraid to put the electric on or buy groceries if we are short of money......I came home the other week and discovered that she had bought me a designer shirt that I had had my eyes on for a while and I know it was £65...........yeah I BET you are literally shaking with laughter when you read my previous post............. Go back to mongering my friend and all the shit that that involves. Now I'm not saying I don't love that and I don't do it myself but I always do it knowing I have someone special in my life waiting for me somewhere............ a long term relationship isn't for everyone and not everybody has the attributes required to make one work........maybe you have never had one? Like I said I don't know you so won't post absolute shite like "my sides are splitting and I'm literally shaking with laughter." Now for fear of a thread fuck........can we get back to the topic in hand?

This probably ISN'T the site you should be looking on for advice or encouragement when it comes to taking a girl from the p4p industry back to your home country but I will say one thing, as a man who has done exactly that and has now had his wife here in my country for nearly three years: there are anomalies to everything and don't listen to the people who say it won't work........ I have had my fair share of ups and downs in that time and I have made that known to the board lately but I have recently discovered that I am being a complete ass hole when it comes to my wife and have very nearly ruined probably the best thing that ever happened to me and if I'm not careful I will ruin it altogether. I have been so lucky when it has comes to my Thai wife and really didn't know until lately just how lucky I am. If you really feel in your heart that you love each other then go for it but I will say one thing: if your relationship is built around money and how much you give her right from the start then I would proceed with caution because I would question whether she is genuine or not and exactly what her motives are. Myself and my friend both married Thai women around the same sort of time and bought them to the UK and he is beginning to learn that his wife is only here for money and doesn't really love him whereas my wife is the real deal........I'm just too selfish to be a good husband..... In the four years I have known her I have given her family a grand total of about 20,000 baht and that was only once, the first time I went to see them. My wife is actually LOWER maintenance than previous girlfriends in the UK and all she asks for is that ONE DAY I build her a house on her land in Buriram AFTER we have got our own lives together. If your girlfriend wants you to send her money from day one and starts to lay the law down about how the future will be and how much money you will have to send her family etc etc etc then I wouldn't get involved. Everybody is different and some people are loaded and do not care about money but I know that even if I did have lots of money I wouldn't feel comfortable in a relationship where you basically "pay as you go" because she isn't with you for the right reasons then and will NEVER respect you. I could quite easily pull myself an Asian looking chick in my own country that has Western values......

LB's give the best blow jobs. It's official.

Strictly speaking, she isn't Thai.

I wish you every success. It has been an ambition of mine for a long time to write a book and I WILL do so one day........here's till then.......

Now that's what I call a real fight, unlike that awful fight I watched on Saturday between Haye and that gutless, excuse for a pugilist Audley Harrison. Pride of Britain? More like the shame of Britain......

You're fully aware of my stance on this joe.

Is there really? And a red light district to boot? That's a short plane journey away? I'm sure the one in Lisbon is much better anyway........

I agree but people fighting a phony politicians war in a country they have no right to be in aren't heroes either they are complete fools for putting their life on the line for a country that couldn't give two fucks whether they die or not. I know I don't. Heroes? Give me a break.

Yes I've always wanted to see the statue of Christ. Maybe I'll make it..............

Apart from the obvious need for technology in the form of goal line/touch line cameras/lasers or whatever I think FIFA should ban the England side from being allowed to play in it again. They are a waste of ours and everybody else's time.

That was my first port of call but it didn't work. I must have changed it since then. Yeah, that'll happen. You're talking to a man that can't remember his password. That means nothing to me. Cheers. I'll have a look later.

Does anyone know how to get into a PC if you have forgot the password? I am trying to get into an old laptop to unearth some old mongering photos but the PC doesn't recognise my passwords which is weird because I only ever use four.

You really thinks so? I was only putting lots of photos in it to make it more interesting. Seeing as this is a mongers site I thought most would switch off when they saw large amounts of text....... Oh and as for resizing with that software you're on about, can you do the lot in one go because I am doing them one by one on Photobucket and it is taking an age.

No wonder my bandwidth ran out. I didn't know how it all worked until recently. What's a good size for a photo on a forum?