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hi guys

 

Well my speachless girl was bar fined last night , it was done by a nice guy who took her for dinner and dancing .

 

She came back to tell me she was ok and that she had a good night,only problem i have is when she gets excited she talks fast i cant follow her hands to good .

 

Guys it is great to hear from kind hearted people ,it lets you know we are not all what the press paint us out to be, i will talk with her tonight and she what she says ,as always nothing is as simple as it seems.

 

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Dammit I'm getting jaded.

 

All I can think of is that she won't have a phone ringing while she's on the job.

 

Sue me.

 

She can still text!

 

Do they have video phones in Los yet? Maybe the BMs can buy two video phones for her?

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I KNOW I am a terrible cynic :poke - but if kindhearted people paid all the girls NOT to work in the bars Pattaya would not really be the same for me. :cry2

 

Too many sponsors for my taste already :cry2

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Where did she learn sign language. Gallaudet is the US university for the deaf, but there are many schools -- the point being that I think the language is country specific? How does this work? Does the Thai government pay?

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hi guys

 

well it has been a few days now so i will update you on how things are going.

 

our girl has now had 2 bar fines both times it has been out for some thing to eat and once off to see a movie the other guy took her out dancing.

 

It is now that time of the mth for her so there is nothing tht will make her happy at the moment ,she even turned down a drink from 2 guys the other day ,she tried to explain she was no good to talk with.

 

You know i find it funny because we always say we talk to her ,when in fact she cant talk. It does not take long before you forget that she cant talk ,yet find that you are having a great conversation with her.

 

She had a friend of her come in to say hi ,yes this girl also cant talk ,but it was a great time . This girl has a boy friend who thinks the world of her and it shows, he explained that it took a few days to work it all out . BUt tells me her disadvantage has helped him understand her better and not so much as a girl to fuck (my hat of to him).

 

I am not sure where she learnt to speak hands ,but when she gets excited she talks too quick for me ,she also reads lips a little ,but this one is not so easy.

 

I have also found out this she is a great dancer.

 

anyways guys lets hope that if you looking for a girlfriend , you find time to drop in to say hi.

 

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hi guys

 

Sorry for the late update ,all my children are in town with there girl friends and i have been playing good dad and spending lots of time or was that money with them.

 

DON mate thank you for your words ,some times it is easy to get close to a girl and see her in a diferant way than others do . I think she is cute and not like most bgs.

 

Ok just before i went away ,she was crying . She did not have a friend to talk with as her friend had been bar fined . Her aunty was in hospital with a major problem (mothers sister) and she wanted 1 day off to go to see her up country .Well my manager said NO and that she had not worked long enought for her first day off and for a advance on wages.

 

This got back to me and we had a long (and slow) talk about it all ,in the end i told her that 1 day was not going to be long enough (nothing worse than to set things up so that you know that they cant keep what you asked off them).

 

So i told her i did not want to see her back her till sunday night (3 days off) and that i would give her 3000 bt to take back with her,it was worth the 3000 bt just to see her face light up ( i explained that NEXT time this would come out of her wages BUT this time there would be no cuts to her wages).

 

Ok next it was about 1.30 at this stage so i told her to go back to her room and get ready for the morning.

 

As i went to get some thing to eat she was going out the door ,so i asked if she had eaten (she still has very little money with only 2 bar fines and no sex) yes she was hungry.

 

While we were eating we talked a lot more and i got to find out lots more. It turns out that the Thai guy left her once she was pregnant and that she was cutting rice right up to her 7-8 th mth with no other way to feed herself. After this she was forced to beg for food with a sigh saying that she could not talk.

 

Around 3-4 mth after the baby was born she had to give the baby to the Thai guy (being under 20 and with no real job or man to look after her she cant stop him so i am told) who now has his mother look after the baby and she just about never she the baby.

 

She explained that the day her baby was taken ,was the day she wanted to die (and nearly did from drinking and not eating) and she then went to BKK to try to find work hoping to make enough money to get her baby back (which another girl explained will not be that simple).

 

Anyway after beging for money she came to Pattaya and you know most of it from there .

 

Guys PLEASE dont shoot me if i have not got all of this 100% as it was now 4 days back ,but i think you get the idea.

 

Yes there are many stories out there just like this one ,as this is common ,how ever this is harder for her as she cant talk. SO next time you brag about being able to fuck a girl for free or you got her down to 500 bt ,just think if she is a girl like this,who is working to try to make money to fix some type of problem.

 

Last and i think the shittyest thing a guy could have done . My girl cant hear very well at all ,so before she had hearing aids (which worked for her) ,the Thai broke both her hearing aids before he left with the baby,and to date she has not had the money to buy new one.

 

And you think at times your life sucks ?? Yet this girl can still smile and try to say hello.

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Alan, I am sat here after a very enjoyable day out at a cold, wet and soggy golf course reading posts in pattaya pages and secrets between taking bad beats at texas holdem cos I'm pissed up and overplaying very bad cards. Your reports on said girl really do touch the strings of my badly beaten heart and after an earlier post I offered to donate my meagre winnings from the superbowl as part of a pot to try and get her away from the den of iniquity that is Pattaya.

 

I know people will say that there are many many who are in the same or similar boat but those are people who I have little or no knowledge of. I willingly gave to Moulies fund before I had even visited LOS and when I had a party in FLB last year it was wonderful to see her alive and very much kicking, perhaps my donation was selfish in that I did it to make myself feel good or perhaps I donated because if I hadn't the money would have been pissed up against some cold concrete wall, I guess we'll never know.

 

I'm sure you've guessed by now that I'm fairly pissed up but I need your guidance. I would very much like to help this girl out. There is no way I could commit to a relationship cos at the moment I'm probably more

f**kt up than a gay morman who loves gin and tonic. I am however more than willing to send a one of payment or something to help this girl out.

 

I would love to BF her and take her out for a fun packed evening with a huge tip at the end (I am of course a proud LDOPer) unfortunately I will not be in Pattaya until early July and that is a lifetime away. This is purely a suggestion so that she does not lose the infamous "face" rather than just send money to her perhaps you could arrange for someone to BF her, take her out for a wonderful meal, a game of bowls, a cabaret, and perhaps a dance at Lucifers or Xcite then a hug, a kiss, an over the top tip and a goodnight all at my expense of course!

 

Anyway I must get back to my poker but let me know wot you think or maybe you would have a better idea, I wait with baited breath and more than likely a throbbing headache! :devil

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i think it is very commenable that some of the BM's here are willing to pledge money to this girls future, as am i.

 

What i would like to know is how this girl would react to random strangers coming into the bar giving her money. fair enough if its lady drinks, what about larger sums of money? Is she likely to put 2 and 2 together and suss out we are talking about her on the internet etc ?

 

If she was to discover this, would it upset her or would she forget about being proud and be eternally grateful ? This depends on her personality.

 

I guess what i'm trying to say is that some people do not like to feel like they are charity cases, what ever their finacial situation. If people are serious about helping this girl it should be done in a sensitive manner.

 

Anyone have any suggestions ?

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hi guys

 

Well i spent some time with her late last night talking about things and learning more about her. This does get hard at times when she starts to talk quickly as her hands are faster than i can understand,but some how it is possable. In fact i was in the shit with my wife for getting home late ,you try telling your wife that you are late because you were talking with a girl who cant talk !

 

I am starting to ask her how i can help and if she would like to go to school ,to learn some thing (i am doing this step at a time). It turns out that she can once she is comfortable make some sounds ;i think that if she had some training that she might even be able to talk a little.

 

But as always over here ,she cant stop work to go to school . As they say no money no eat ,so guys i am keeping in mind what you have all been talking about and am inching forward.

 

I will spend some time talking again with her tonight ,as i asked her to go out and find out how much a hearing aid would cost. She told me at first when i asked that it would cost 10,000 bt and i could not believe it could be that low (if that is all it is the bar will buy it for her as a thank you for the advertising and good will she has given the bar).

 

i will keep you updated guys

 

alan

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I'm happy to see that she is getting some support, after all the blasting I recieved in previous posts I figured I would sit back and see what happens. My offer still stands...If I can offer her a hand I'm more than willing! Shane I think what you're doing is a good thing and when I'm back in town I'll stop by and pay you and your bar a visit. Take care and let us know what the out come is.

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I would be willing to contribute to help this kid, as I am sure many others would. Let us know if you set up a fund or account and how to contribute to it. I can't stop in and give her money since I won't be back till Nov. and who knows where she could be by then, you could pm me with details.

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