Now to Meet Non-P4P Thai Girls

[Idefix 2,275]

... and many times they will say "with you".

 

I would certainly not not put these ladies in the "Non-P4P Thai Girls" category

 

... except that most non-P4P girls don't speak English whistling

Welcome to 1972.

 

I was the lucky guy eating at noon with a friendly cashier of Lotus Sukhumvit and 4 of her colleagues. They were about 20 yo and new workers in Pattaya (a few weeks or months) and none of these 4 ladies was able to speak a basic sentence in English... Just "Hello Sir/Madmam" & "Thank you".

 

So ok, you have many girls in 2012 who can speak basic English or more, mainly in Bangkok or around big cities, but a big proportion of young ladies arriving Pattaya from Isaan or "Nowhere" still can't speak English today. You will find many of them East of 3rd Rd.

[BigDUSA 71]

The OP stated that he is a newbie. Maybe he is sticking to what he knows. What works for him at home. It could be that he wants a wife, or long term girlfriend, That may change after a few days in Pattaya

 

If a guys looking for a wife or long term girlfriend. Pattaya is the WRONG place to look. Pattaya is a town full of prostitutes, thieves and con artists. For the NEWBIE this town is great for two or three week relationships. If a guys looking for a wife. I'd recommend the Philippines and not the mongering towns. The girls for the most part speak reasonable English and are looking for a better life.

[bigmick 840]

If a guys looking for a wife or long term girlfriend. Pattaya is the WRONG place to look. Pattaya is a town full of prostitutes, thieves and con artists. For the NEWBIE this town is great for two or three week relationships. If a guys looking for a wife. I'd recommend the Philippines and not the mongering towns. The girls for the most part speak reasonable English and are looking for a better life.

 

But what about you and Pukky? she would have been your wife according to you?

 

And what do you know about the Philippines? When was you there last? Is it not also full of prostitutes, and aren't Thai girls also looking for a better life

[BigDUSA 71]

But what about you and Pukky? she would have been your wife according to you?

 

And what do you know about the Philippines? When was you there last? Is it not also full of prostitutes, and aren't Thai girls also looking for a better life

 

Go back and read my post. My post is directed toward a NEWBIE. For the guy whose been to Pattaya many times and knows his way around the BG bull shit there a some fine BG that would make an excellent partner to go through life with. I've never been to the PI but over the years. I've met many women from the PI here in the US.

[bigmick 840]

Go back and read my post. My post is directed toward a NEWBIE. For the guy whose been to Pattaya many times and knows his way around the BG bull shit there a some fine BG that would make an excellent partner to go through life with. I've never been to the PI but over the years. I've met many women from the PI here in the US.

 

It makes no difference if a guy is a newbie or not, if he meets a nice giel in Pattaya it is up to him to be man enough to decide if it is the right thing for him. He does not have to have been coming to Thailand for years to work that out - unlike some Now i am happy to see you still base your comments on places like the PI on hearsay from nationals who no longer live there.

[jacko 8,814]

. I've never been to the PI but over the years. I've met many women from the PI here in the US.

Well the ones over there in there in PI are different than the staff working in USA airports.

[Goldpanner 399]

If a guys looking for a wife or long term girlfriend. Pattaya is the WRONG place to look. Pattaya is a town full of prostitutes, thieves and con artists. For the NEWBIE this town is great for two or three week relationships.

True, the best place to find 'Straight girls' is Bangkok, far more women, far more places to meet them. Try MBK around lunchtime on a Saturday.

If a guys looking for a wife. I'd recommend the Philippines and not the mongering towns.

So you admit in a later post here you've never been there and have no empirical knowledge of the place yet you recommend it as the place to find a wife, thats pretty bizarre and based on a few PI girls you know in the US????

The girls for the most part speak reasonable English and are looking for a better life.

And that isnt the same for Thailand?, boy are you lost. Ive been to the PI several times and Thailand many many times and can tell you there are as many, probably more women in Thailand who speak English than the PI, The problem is that in Thailand they tend to be a lot more shy in speaking English unless they are laughed at or lose face. What Thai's DONT come out with is the BS you get from most PI girls that they have all been to University, an almost universal scam statement from most all PI girls I ever met. yes theyve all been to University !! wow even those showing a level of ignorance and stupidity that goes off the scale ??

Many, if not most PI girls Ive ever seen or met are predatory, ok some Thai girls are like that, but not on a scale as those in the PI. PI girls will say anything and do anything to get married and get out of the hellhole called the Phillippines.

And you probably dont know of the scandal that went rounf the UK in the 80's? When almost every new PI girl who married a UK guy was eventually contacted by some other PI girl and given a letter of instructions about how not to divorce your UK husband untill after 3 years and once the 3 years was up grab UK citizenship, a UK Passport then leave him. I actually had one of those letters passed on to me and I sent it to the UK Immigration department.

As far as my information goes, and I have to admit it now isnt that recent, but my information would show longer marriages between UK-Thai females than UK-PI females. My advice would be after being married to a Thai for over 20 years and also knowing many other blokes from the 70's and 80's who are still married, would be to marry a Thai and NOT a PI girl.

[elk 1]

Hi,

 

You may get lucky but a non P4P girl will probable cost you more in the longterm.

 

Hmmmm, care to elaborate on this statement?

[teelack 9,640]

In a city like Pattaya there are thousands of girls who are NOT on the the game. Just look at the banks, retail scene etc. The issue is that two week millionaires are looking for a quick shag rather than a relationship and are therefore unlikely to go where the Thai people go to relax.

 

In my younger days I used to search out dance halls where locals went to relax. There was always an element of danger " Whats the white man doing on our patch try to fuck our women" but in the main there was a lot of fun to be had. There has been one constant in my search for non bar girls and that is in fact dancing with the locals. Its an ice breaker and has worked for me in Latin America, Australasia and even in Asian countries but I have never even contemplated it in Pattaya.

 

In quite a lot of trips I have met a lady visiting her brother in Pattaya who moved in with me for a week. I also met a lady who was a sales rep but these 2 were out of hundreds of people so I do believe that your chances are slim.

[tko 219]

So you admit in a later post here you've never been there and have no empirical knowledge of the place yet you recommend it as the place to find a wife, thats pretty bizarre and based on a few PI girls you know in the US????

 

Boggles the mind.