Bringing a Bargirl to my country. Good or bad idea

[Siam Sam 964]

I see you edited your nonsensical post to one equally baffling ! Ever here the words embassy or consulate before ?

 

Bored with you now.

 

Face it, she's still a whore.

 

I edited this post so I could put something in bold. I edit posts all the time. You have to when you worry about the bastardisation of English.

Edited February 25, 2011 by Siam Sam

[honeypot 27]

Face it, she's still a whore.

 

No, never was, that would be your wife. Nana Plaza ? In fairness then she's been quite international herself. Arab cocks, Jap cocks, Europeans and Yanks etc. The list is endless.

 

Really bored with you now. Bye bye.

[Siam Sam 964]

No, never was, that would be your wife. Nana Plaza ? In fairness then she's been quite international herself. Arab cocks, Jap cocks, Europeans and Yanks etc. The list is endless.

 

Really bored with you now. Bye bye.

 

So let me get this right? We started this exchange by you laughing at me because my girl is different and it ends with you claiming that you are in actual fact the one that really has a Thai wife that is "different?" Priceless.....and what a role reversal in such a sort space of time? When I married mine, I had to go to the "Ministry of Foreign Affairs." Maybe that was the government department your lady works in? My sides really are now "shaking with laughter"........

 

Oh shit I edited my post again..............

Edited February 25, 2011 by Siam Sam

[samfreeland 64]

you wouldn't think it would be that fckn difficult to bring a friend from Thailand to visit but with all these at immigration trying to justify there miserable existences its become a nightmare. any pretty girl from Thailand or south America or some other third world must obviously want to enter your country to be a prostitute. or if there a guy a taxi driver. you have to relize the only power these other wise waste of spaces have in there sad life is to say NO and they grasp the chance to say NO at any available opportunity depending on whether they got a fuck or not the night before. no wonder terrorists slip in there to worried people might be having SEX much more important.

[roorsoldja 325]

Sam, Thank you for your post, I loved your tr and it's a shame not more people read it Although 5-6000 views is alot but anyways

 

Thank you for your advice, i knew before posting i would get flamed from a few bm's but i did learn a few things.

 

The main thing, that i guess i didn't explain it well is i consider her a friend not a girlfriend or sponcer. There is zero chance of me sponcering her. I have known her for 9-10 months and again where friends. I don't think she would take advantage of my friendship as she refused several things I wanted to buy her cause she thought it was to much money. I know a lot of bm's would think this a game she's playing but i don't. She's never asked me for money in the 10 months i've known her. She only asked for her money that i was paying her when we where in bangkok mid trip since she had to send it to her mom for her daughter. I know she sent since i went to the bank with her and saw her send it. When she left a few days later she didn't ask for more money or anything but i bought her some clothes from the soi cybercow market but at my behest not hers.

 

I was primarlily looking for the hurrdles i will be facing when "if" i get her come over.

 

ricktoronto rose a great point about the visa's i had no idea about.

 

someone else brought up that a friend of his brought a girl and she took off.

 

As i said i consider her a friend and i like hanging out with her she's fun, If i have the means why not bring a friend over for a visit and yes she does sell herself to pay the bills and if i have sex with her then of course i will be paying her, same as if my friend the dentist does my teeth i have to pay him for his services.

 

Another Bm brought up about making sure she knows this is just for fun not a relationship. It would be cruel of me to lead her on.

 

the meaning of the post was for bm's to help me bring up questions that i wouldnt have thought of like the ones above.

the one that i have the most trouble with is the Visa's. i'm pretty young so if somehow i get robbed or whatever and she takes my money it's only money i can earn more.

 

I need a lot more thought on it and I thank everybody ( except Stinky ) for there opinens

[Freddy 3]

I once brought a girl (from Chaiyaphum) to my country (Holland) for a 2 weeks holidays back in the early 90's. I flew with her from Thailand to be sure she had no troubles at the immigration (we had not). First thing she said when we left the airport was "Why are all the trees dead?" (no leaves as it was winter). We had lots of fun the two weeks despite being very cold for her. I showed her around and she was genuinely curious and interested. I even left her alone for 2 days to attend some business, but never had any problems. She had no intention to stay so I put her back on the plane 2 weeks later. It was fun for all.

 

The tourist visa required quite some paper work and I had to vouch for her fiancially. Some visits to our embassy in Bangkok helped us to smooth out things. We had to prove that we knew each other for some years (emails, letters), but generally all went smoothly. Not sure how about now. I never took her or another girl to my country again, it was just a one time thing.

Edited February 25, 2011 by Freddy

[alexist 12]

It appears from a few posts that you both will have to jump through a lot of hoops to make "the visit" work but if it's something you both really want to do then it'll be worth the effort.

 

I think it'll have a lot of wow factor on her part. I have taken a few BGs out of their bars and they loved being somewhere different even if it was only a mile or two from their place of work. For many girls it's bar loom bar loom etc etc.. Imagine if they went to a different country....

 

In my life I've never regretted the things I've done...but I have quite often regretted the things I didn't too.

 

You only get 1 shot so it's best to try and do things which make you happy. If it goes tits up, pick yourself up shake yourself down and move on to the next chapter.

 

Just my humble opinion though :)

Edited February 25, 2011 by alexist

[honeypot 27]

So let me get this right? We started this exchange by you laughing at me because my girl is different and it ends with you claiming that you are in actual fact the one that really has a Thai wife that is "different?" Priceless.....and what a role reversal in such a sort space of time? When I married mine, I had to go to the "Ministry of Foreign Affairs." Maybe that was the government department your lady works in? My sides really are now "shaking with laughter"........

 

Oh shit I edited my post again..............

 

Where is the role reversal ? You really are a moron and are losing badly here.

 

My girlfriend is currently working in New York, she is Thai and works for the Thai ambasador to the united nations in New York, do you really believe they employ ex whores for this kind of position ? Maybe for the first time you have met someone who has truly a "different" girl ? Stop being a prick, I chose not to get involved with that side of Pattaya, if it works for you ok, but it's not for me. Your arguments speak volumes ! You think a Farang cannot find a normal relationship here ? Try looking outside the bars and maybe you could find a "different" girl ?

[Irish boy 67]

In my life I've never regretted the things I've done...but I have quite often regretted the things I didn't too.You only get 1 shot so it's best to try and do things which make you happy. If it goes tits up, pick yourself up shake yourself down and move on to the next chapter.

 

Just my humble opinion though :)

 

Excellent stuff Alex

[roorsoldja 325]

Where is the role reversal ? You really are a moron and are losing badly here.

 

My girlfriend is currently working in New York, she is Thai and works for the Thai ambasador to the united nations in New York, do you really believe they employ ex whores for this kind of position ? Maybe for the first time you have met someone who has truly a "different" girl ? Stop being a prick, I chose not to get involved with that side of Pattaya, if it works for you ok, but it's not for me. Your arguments speak volumes ! You think a Farang cannot find a normal relationship here ? Try looking outside the bars and maybe you could find a "different" girl ?

 

what are you talking about, he did, he's been happily married for three years.

 

If your not into mongering why are you here?

 

not trying to be a dick, but.......

[honeypot 27]

Lol, You married a prostitute.

 

Just tried to imagine telling my mother, father, sister, brother, extended family and friends that ! Or did you ? Did you lie ? There would be a poll worth persuing if people would be honest, Thai bargirls have been a standing joke in the Western world for over 30 years .

[roorsoldja 325]

I once brought a girl (from Chaiyaphum) to my country (Holland) for a 2 weeks holidays back in the early 90's. I flew with her from Thailand to be sure she had no troubles at the immigration (we had not). First thing she said when we left the airport was "Why are all the trees dead?" (no leaves as it was winter). We had lots of fun the two weeks despite being very cold for her. I showed her around and she was genuinely curious and interested. I even left her alone for 2 days to attend some business, but never had any problems. She had no intention to stay so I put her back on the plane 2 weeks later. It was fun for all.

 

The tourist visa required quite some paper work and I had to vouch for her fiancially. Some visits to our embassy in Bangkok helped us to smooth out things. We had to prove that we knew each other for some years (emails, letters), but generally all went smoothly. Not sure how about now. I never took her or another girl to my country again, it was just a one time thing.

 

 

It appears from a few posts that you both will have to jump through a lot of hoops to make "the visit" work but if it's something you both really want to do then it'll be worth the effort.

 

I think it'll have a lot of wow factor on her part. I have taken a few BGs out of their bars and they loved being somewhere different even if it was only a mile or two from their place of work. For many girls it's bar loom bar loom etc etc.. Imagine if they went to a different country....

 

In my life I've never regretted the things I've done...but I have quite often regretted the things I didn't too.

 

You only get 1 shot so it's best to try and do things which make you happy. If it goes tits up, pick yourself up shake yourself down and move on to the next chapter.

 

Just my humble opinion though :)

Thank you both for your input

[Irish boy 67]

Love the stereotyping and taring all of them with same brush...................always amazes me when people know some much about others without actually even meeting them

[MCCREADY8 0]

Love the stereotyping and taring all of them with same brush...................always amazes me when people know some much about others without actually even meeting them

 

Here Here!

[roorsoldja 325]

Lol, You married a prostitute.

 

Just tried to imagine telling my mother, father, sister, brother, extended family and friends that ! Or did you ? Did you lie ? There would be a poll worth persuing if people would be honest, Thai bargirls have been a standing joke in the Western world for over 30 years .

we're all whores in our own special way.

 

Can you start your own thread and leave mine alone being your off topic.

 

thanks

[jacko 8,815]

I was just there for two weeks, but but only spent maybe 5 days with her. took her with me to bangkok. I don't plan on her staying for a month

just a couple weeks. I guess if we get along great she could stay longer but i work late hours and she would be alone for that time. not looking to get married but i'm sure it would make my father happy if i did

So you want her to sit around alone in your home while you are at work, and be available to you at nightime?

I don't think you are doing her any favours... how much will you pay her beyond expenses?

[Irish boy 67]

we're all whores in our own special way.

 

Can you start your own thread and leave mine alone being your off topic.

 

thanks

 

Yes, we all know that his is 'different' and he likes to try and look down on others...............self esteem issues there methinks, quite sad when you have to try and big yourself up on basically a Thai Mongers Forum.............especially when you make a cunt outta yourself and everyone is actually bored with you.........

[roorsoldja 325]

So you want her to sit around alone in your home while you are at work, and be available to you at nightime?

I don't think you are doing her any favours... how much will you pay her beyond expenses?

I can move my scheadule around but i don't start work will Noon on most days.

I would be paying her what she would make at her bar if she got bf LT everday for the time she is with me.

[jacko 8,815]

I can move my scheadule around but i don't start work will Noon on most days.

I would be paying her what she would make at her bar if she got bf LT everday for the time she is with me.

But surely that still means a fair bit of time alone for her?

So in effect you are looking for a live in sex supplier who is somewhat cheaper than the local options?

I am beginning to think you are on a wind up.

[Irish boy 67]

I think Scotty has got the Fever bad, we all did after our first few trips, and most can relate and deal with it better now from past experience.

 

He's asked for advice, and most are giving sound advice to him. Some are taking the piss, as some always will.

[roorsoldja 325]

But surely that still means a fair bit of time alone for her?

So in effect you are looking for a live in sex supplier who is somewhat cheaper than the local options?

I am beginning to think you are on a wind up.

No it's not a wind up. it would be cheaper to get the local girls. Being i would be paying for her flight, food entertainment and her lost wages.

 

YES i will want to have sex with her, but it's also for her too. As i have said i've known her for 9 months and was just with her.

 

I enjoy her company and i think it would be fun for both of us however i just need to sleep on it for a bit as i already mentioned.

 

I think i've gotten all the advise i need and now it's up to me to make up my mind. The whole situation is a lot easier to explain in person.

[FatherMojo 2]

Love the stereotyping and taring all of them with same brush...................always amazes me when people know some much about others without actually even meeting them

 

Oh Irish Boy,

Didn't you know that 3rd parties are always vast repositories of knowledge. They know everything about everything.

 

 

roorsoldja,

You have seen how things can go wrong with this and how things can go right. All I can say is trust your gut instinct on this. Additionally, if she makes it out there, get whatever insurance is needed to protect yourself against any accidents.

 

FatherMojo

[cebual 31]

Bad idea bringing any lady from overseas to your country....does not matter whether she is Bar lady, or regular lady, it is just plain, a bad idea....which will leave you bankrupt and divorced in the end

[roorsoldja 325]

Bad idea bringing any lady from overseas to your country....does not matter whether she is Bar lady, or regular lady, it is just plain, a bad idea....which will leave you bankrupt and divorced in the end

how will she bankrupt me and divorce me ? If she did come over it would be a 2 week holiday. I'm not married to her and i don't sponcer her, she just a friend of mine who i also enjoy having sex with.

[Shit_Happens 31]

If you have the money go for it, you would have fun and so would she. Agree the sponsoring track is a not a smart way to go in your situation with only 3 weeks a year holidays.