How many send or have sent ?

[Pattaya Bill 34]

Elvis Presley- Return to Sender Address unkwnown :clap2 :clap2 :clap2

 

Man, are you dating yourself! The sad thing (?) however, is that I also remember when Elvis sang this song. Makes me an Old Fart too.

 

Didn't mean to thread fuck, but I had to get that in

[yogi100 1,925]

Sending money to to someone for whom you have romantic inclinations has always been a risky affair. Con artists used to use the lonely hearts columns in newspapers and magazines to rip would be suitors off. Then along came the internet scamsters. Sponsoring these Thai strumpets is little different although usually the mark has already met the lass to whom he is sending his hard earned money.

 

It is an activity that should be shied away from. The sponsor is normally being fleeced and the girl who is in receipt of the funds is then able to remove herself from the market thereby depriving other fellows of her services. I've been coming to Pattaya for a long time and have noticed the quality of the girls go downhill at an alarming rate in the last twelve years. I'm sure the foolish practice of sponsoring is to a large extent responsible for this decline. We've all heard and read of blowhards who brag about shagging sponsored floozies so do not make such a opportunity possible. I avoid having any problems by not giving them my email address or correct UK phone number.

[luco01 51]

I have never sent and will never send money to BGs in Pattaya .I go for 1 thing and that is definitely not to send money for services not received.

 

Have to agree with the highlighted statement. Having a small heart and a large brain helps :)

[Parkwahn 61]

Man, are you dating yourself! The sad thing (?) however, is that I also remember when Elvis sang this song. Makes me an Old Fart too.

 

Didn't mean to thread fuck, but I had to get that in

 

 

It came from "Sender" hence the song..

 

Up to the senders if they can afford it , not sure what they want out of it I have seen different sets of expectations, from what I see many senders are not the wealthiest guys, still up to them

[gaijin 146]

Last trip I had a LT girl who I spent at least half my stay with. After a while I got the itch to butterfly and told her my intentions. I liked her quite a bit and planned to spend my last few days with her to send me off to the airport peacefully so I told her this and offered to give her the rate I was giving her LT for the time I'd be butterflying. And I gave it to her upfront, so she wouldn't have to go with other customers. That wasn't the only reason I gave it to her, but since I was giving her money on a sort of short time sponsorship I demanded she not go with other customers and she agreed that she'd pick up phone whenever I called. And I did check up on my investment, she was honest the first few days, but things changed when she saw me riding by her bar with another thai girl on the back and I guess her co-workers let her know about it too and thus she lost face even though it was made clear that I'd be butterflying. So she stops taking my calls and most likely went with other guys, and when we did finally get face to face again she lied every which way claiming she'd lost her phone at Mike's Shopping Mall, and didn't go to retrieve it for a few days, yea bullshit right? After this episode I decided never to do so again and stick strictly with pay as you go. If I can't even trust a girl on a short time sponsorship and I'm right down the block from where her bar was, how could anyone really trust a Thai girl on a sponsorship when they are out of country. She'll go fucking someone else first chance she gets, guaranteed.

[jacko 8,813]

Car is now paid for. And my savings still intact at home.

 

So did you transfer it into your own name now?

[doolish 14]

Hi,

Jacko. No, cars done 90K and I am replacing it this year. Not worth all the hassle and cost etc. of putting it into my name. Will do it the same way, with new car, H.P. at 0% interest. In wifes name. Keep my savings at home earning good interest.

Wife has her own business and has more money in the bank, than i have as reserve back home.

Bloke next door sold his house, in his companies name, for 1.6 million B. His wife said good that will be 800,000B for me. He said no. If you want more money than i give you, then you will have to go out to work for it. So she never got anything from the sale.

I would not, and have never, sent money out to LOS. And would only give a girl money if i was living with her.

Bloke last month bought a house, don't know which way he did it. He is at present back home working, She has already had two of her ex. farang boyfriends staying with her. Poor bloke does not know what he has let himself in for.

Be VERY careful. Or you will be sorry, most of the time.

Cheers Doug.

[flighty 31]

If you're going to go down the sending road ask yourself what message am I sending to the girl. You need to explain what you're doing and what you expect or don't expect back. If it's just a vague feel good gesture chances are you are just sowing confusion. And if they get confused they get angry or try to initiate the agenda. The road to hell is paved etc...There's plenty of wealthy people in Pattaya to help out if you're not available , as I've had to explain in the past to the locals by email.

[pattayaman 8]

I have sponsored 3 Thais and 1 Pinay.

 

A Cherry Girl I nobbed here in AC is now 4 months pregnant so #5 could be along soon!

sorry, but whats a pinay?

[papillon 695]

sorry, but whats a pinay?

I'll give you a clue.........

 

http://sensualpinays.blogspot.com/

[willie 0]

MEN - GUYS please come on - i have had 2 dear friends loose everything - what is wrong with some men - It's just pussy - they dont care about you -its a job to them .i DONT BLAME THE GIRLS i would do the same thing in their position.What makes some guys be such suckers.I warned a friend of mine not to stay in contact with these girls- just have fun i said - Oh well now he's running out of money and starting to get a desperate look on his face.She is in total control and she wont stop until the well is dry.He was warned and is still playing the fool.I guess some people never learn.Have some self respect and never let a woman make you her bitch! I just needed to vent sorry guys.

[aussiechic 209]

Hi,

For Park. to say everyone that has married will have sent money, is incorrect. I met my wife in Patts.,she was working as a cashier, not in a bar, I never sent her any money, not a penny, in the two years before i settled down in LOS with her.

As for buying a house for her. If you are stupid enought to do that, it's your own fault. I bought my house, when i retired to LOS, in Udon Thani, for 14,000GBPs. Just under a million B then. A new three beds, two bathrooms. The house was put in my name, the land in hers. You can get the land in your name, but i did not want all the hassle. I got a thirty year lease, extendable for a further 30 years, on the land. Belt and braces. So she cannot chuck you out as people say. If you go about it correctly. If not, you deserve all you get. Also my advice is do not live near her family. That is why i chose Udon, instead of Korat, where she has a two bedroom brick built house. Her father is now living in this.

As for a car, not a pick-up. I was going to buy one, in my name, for cash. Found out that if i put it in her name i could buy it on H.P., with Toyota, with no interest charges. As i was getting a good interest rate on my savings at home i decided to do this. Car is now paid for. And my savings still intact at home.

Cheers from a happy, careful, married, old chappie.

 

As this in the open forum area I like to let people know cashiers do work in a bar and do go with customers, his wife was different.

[teelack 9,627]

I have found this thread to be of real interest. One thing that I have not really noticed is that I am sure that there is a class/sort/type of guy who is quite happy to send money knowing that there may be or even is other guys in the wings. Rather than call it sponsorship, lets just call it a gift. On that basis I see no issue or problem and if it gets the sender some preference or karma, then good on them.

[Hami123456 7]

maybe it gave them some satisfaction to do that, falling in love means I fuck for free.

[shambley 109]

Hi all.

 

send 10k a month to 2 girls, ask nothing in return,

 

1 is living with a falang sponsor, the other paid rent in pattaya plus extra,

just given a few k to another I've never even barfined.

 

Is the OP asking why we do it, or trying to get his around we can do it ?

 

If your trying to give clever morals for us idiots, remember freedom from Political correctness also equal "up to me"

 

and if I get off on it - then what the feck has it to do with you

 

regards

 

A total noobie

[Parkwahn 61]

I have found this thread to be of real interest. One thing that I have not really noticed is that I am sure that there is a class/sort/type of guy who is quite happy to send money knowing that there may be or even is other guys in the wings. Rather than call it sponsorship, lets just call it a gift. On that basis I see no issue or problem and if it gets the sender some preference or karma, then good on them.

 

 

Thats how I see it, each to their own

[Parkwahn 61]

Hi all.

 

send 10k a month to 2 girls, ask nothing in return,

 

1 is living with a falang sponsor, the other paid rent in pattaya plus extra,

just given a few k to another I've never even barfined.

 

Is the OP asking why we do it, or trying to get his around we can do it ?

 

If your trying to give clever morals for us idiots, remember freedom from Political correctness also equal "up to me"

 

and if I get off on it - then what the feck has it to do with you

 

regards

 

A total noobie

 

 

It was a thread wondering how many have sent, there is no need to be rude about the thread, I know many many girls who get sent but not many guys who send

 

Good for you sending money to people less fortunate than you

Edited October 23, 2011 by Parkwahn

[shambley 109]

Never rude intentions parkwhan - just honest m8

 

So many moralists or knowitalls in these monger forums it amuses me

 

If you shag a girl im sending money too - would hope you dont try and get a discount

[streeteats 30]

When will they ever learn?

Perhaps we should post pictures of girls that we know are sponsored

that sounds like a damn good idea. Well vow never to show it to the girls ofcourse. What a way to look out for each other. The benifits can be many. If a girl is getting sponsered by more than one, it well be discovered.