Really need advice about my lady in pattaya

[mymads 0]

i was in bangkok 10 days ago then moved to pattaya for having great time, bumbum and others.
second day on pattaya i was in insomnia disco with may friends, and met "the lady" , started sext dance with her and asked her wanna go with me to my hotel and she replied 1500 baht for shortime and i told 1000 baht for all night. she agreed with and we went to hotel. she told me she is 24 years old

I had sex with other thai ladies on bangkok but this was different, romantic one with thai songs about pattaya, realy making love . And made the mistake , that was so romantic that i did'nt use condom and she also did'nt ask while having sex. . next 3 days i wasnt protected either while having sex with my lady

next morning seems we came lovers, she did not ask for money that we agreed, we go some touristic places then next day we went the bar she's working as waitress. i bought some gifts to her. seems everything so romantic, she showed her place where she stay with her girl friend. It was so small place to stay , only one big bed for three girls, few clothes, few shoes, i saw that she's really poor.but she has a good cellphone and quiet ok notebook from acer

we spent 3 days together , everything was good mainly beacause i have 'nt a girlfriend or lover for a 3 years.

i saw desktop picture of her girl which is 5 years old, she said she had a baby before but she didnt get married now the farther is taking care of her.

before getting to airport we went to shopping and i was planning to buy her some nice shoes for her since i do not have much time, she said give me money ,she can shop later and buy her shoes and i gace some money.

anyway i went to my country added her from skype ,line and facebook
. on facebook she 's 34 years old. I really cant be sure that she was lying about age because her english is poor and her prononcuation is really hard to understand

we keep talking and having romantic relations by using line, skype
she says she wants me and she wants me to come to pattaya again and then she will come to my country
but from time to time she was dissapering
according to her she start working at the bar from 15.00 - after mindight 02.00. even we usually chatting during the days , twice i could't talk and see her for 20 hours.

i want to try her loyalty and changed my facebook status from single to having relationship with the lady and asked her do the same, she postponed my request and finnaly said she will do once she can use her notebook instead of cellphone .

her english is poor and i was the one who was translating all thai language to english to understand the converstion all the time while we were chatting on written.

i became suspicous after twice she was lost for 20 hours and she showed up on different hotel rooms ,not the small place she staying with 2 other girls
she was alone on that hotel rooms, once she claimed she purchased to Hotel for 1000 baht per night to feel good
at the same time she claims she earns 3000 baht from the bar and she has mother to take care of her
i told her not to be with any customer because she is my girlfriend and i can take care of her and want to have her come to my country. from time to time she said you dont understand lady in pattaya ,sometimes says dont worry i had before but i love you i wont have another

yesterday we were talking on skype and she said she'll go to bangkok today for operation from her nose or something similar, really cant understand exactly, she showed her nose and the space between her eyebrows and said need to go the doctor.
i asked her if customer come to bar and asked her go out and offers some money what will you say since you have me. she says 1500 bath for short time. i really cant be sure since her english is really poor , told her that can you have sex for money with stranger while you are my lover, she replied my not whole night only short time for 1500 baht

i was so angry and i said i cant stand this being cheated and close the video call

then she wrote

"ฉันขอให้คุณโชยดี

คุณไม่ต้องการ

คุณไม่เข้าใจในสิ่งที่ฉันพุดเมื่อกอ่นฉันไปแต่ตอนนี้ฉันหดุยแล้ว

คุณไม่ต้องการอะไร

คุณบอกรักฉันแต่ทำไม่ตอนนี้คุณต้องการฉันแล้ว

คุณบอกรักฉันแต่ทำไม่ตอนนี้คุณไม่ต้องการฉันแล้ว

ทำไมคุณไม่ถามเพื่อนของคุณ

คุณไม่ต้องการฉันก็ไม่เป็นไร


i really dont know she had sex with customer before or while haviing relationship with me , can not be sure but staying on 2 diffrent hotels with paying 1000 baht per night, dissappering for 20 hours twice makes me so suspicous . but at the same time she seems she was loving me ,trying to understand i was the one who can take care of her , trting to understand i was loving her or not.


need your comments please

what do you think?

[atlas2 4,329]

Troll

[Bushcraft 2,582]

Welcome to the Board, and please tell us this is a joke topic. It's certainly got me laughing. If you're even remotely serious with your description of events/feelings, you equally seriously need a wake-up call and were born yesterday.

Can't think why you're feeling just slightly suspicious, after all, bargirls often fancy a night in comfort as a change from their hovel, and splash out on a hotel room just to themselves.

They also go missing for hours or days at a time occasionally, as they're very devout Buddhists who like to take time out to meditate in temples, where mobile phones etc. are not allowed and you can't contact them. And there's no way that she has or will sleep with another man before or after you, having been so well paid as well.

I think you've found a keeper, don't let this girl go, send her some money to prove your love and all will be well.

[MM 6,562]

Troll

 

 

Welcome to the Board, and please tell us this is a joke topic.

 

Guys, don't be so cynical and quick to judge.

 

The poster is actually posting from Istanbul, Turkey, so this might just be a case of a cultural gap, and a serious case of naivete.

 

Let's respond as if the questioner is serious about these issues.

 

It can't hurt, can it?

[atlas2 4,329]

Guys, don't be so cynical and quick to judge.

 

The poster is actually posting from Istanbul, Turkey, so this might just be a case of a cultural gap, and a serious case of naivete.

 

Let's respond as if the questioner is serious about these issues.

 

It can't hurt, can it?

 

 

Yes fair enough. If I'm wrong please accept my apology and good luck to you.

[MM 6,562]

mymads,

 

You have to understand that you met this lady.(prostitute) in a late night disco.

 

You agreed to pay her money and she went to have sex with you. That is what she does.

 

You spent 3 nights with her and want to continue the "relationship" by skype and facebook. She has a good phone and computer, so it's clear this is part of her "work" as well.

 

You are just one guy who spent a very short time with her...there were many before you, and there are likely to be many after you, and once you were gone, she will continue to do what she was doing when she met you.

 

This doesn't sound like anything other than her feeding your weak and needy ego. It is what a good player does in this game. You probably will get requests for money at some point, if you haven't already.

 

The best thing to do is forget about it, and see it for what it was....a short time spent with a lady who acted like she cared for you and made you feel good about yourself.

 

Don't go so far as to believe that was real. It wasn't.

[The_Fat_Controller 25]

Be honest with yourself !

 

She has sex for money with anyone who will pay 1500 Baht.

 

She takes big risks by not using protection.

 

Cut all contact, do not send her money and put it down to experience.

 

You are not the first and will not be the last who falls for a Thai prostitute, they are experts at telling you what you want to hear.

 

Move on and try to forget it.

Edited October 28, 2013 by The_Fat_Controller

[davethailand 91]

I think you should stop contacting her and definitely don't send any money.

Your being conned

[bigmick 840]

I think you should post her picture here and see if any of us has fucked her for 1500 baht know her to be a good girl

[teelack 9,640]

To the OP. If you want to take her away from having sex with other men and to look after her daughter and family ask her how much you will have to spend. Recalling that on top of these expenses she has rent, food, clothing, travel, phone and so forth perhaps if you send her maybe 50,000 baht a month she will love only you.

[LocalYokul 215]

I think you should stop contacting her and definitely don't send any money.

 

Ditto on that one!

[voracious 31]

There's often a bit of truth, when the girls write you or talked to you. Many will even caution you when you're "loved up" ... even if you choose to ignore it.

 

In this case, "You don't understand lady in Pattaya".

 

The gentlemen above are giving you good advice. Enjoy the illusion. Don't fool yourself. Until you are ready to be in country and take the girl out of the game, 99% chance you're just a part of the game.

 

I've met a couple who don't fool around on their out of country boyfriends, but they are very, very, very few and quite far between.

 

Live, learn, and move on.

[MeGoDanceNow 4,281]

Well, I'm glad Martin set the right tone for this one.

 

Mymads, she is a whore and she did what she does for a living. That is a good thing, nothing wrong with that.

 

She fucks for money. But it's more than that -- she sells a lie, a lie you want to believe in.

 

You want to believe she loves you, and she supplies that lie. Don't be angry, that's her job, that's what you paid her to do.

 

But that was before you had an orgasm. Now you have had the orgasm, so it is over.

 

Pay her, thank her, send her home, and find another whore to fuck. Everybody wins.

 

You found what you came here for and so did she. All is well.

[bratpack 91]

That would be funny if 10 bm,s said they had hehehehehehe

I think you should post her picture here and see if any of us has fucked her for 1500 baht know her to be a good girl

[jacko 8,815]

To the OP. If you want to take her away from having sex with other men and to look after her daughter and family ask her how much you will have to spend. Recalling that on top of these expenses she has rent, food, clothing, travel, phone and so forth perhaps if you send her maybe 50,000 baht a month she will love only you.

Irony?

If the guy is naive as MM suggested, perhaps he won't see your tongue-in-cheek response, at least I hope it was tongue in cheek.

[papillon 695]

Pay her, thank her, send her home, and find another whore to fuck.

 

'Send' her home.....

 

Ah yes, you're the cunt that spouts crap like 'He who has the gold.'

 

Who do you think you were?

[MeGoDanceNow 4,281]

'Send' her home.....

 

Ah yes, you're the cunt that spouts crap like 'He who has the gold.'

 

Who do you think you were?

 

There's no need to call me names, Paps.

 

Just say, "I'm a clueless twunt who didn't understand your explanation the first time and isn't going to understand it now."

 

Though we knew that of course.

[ZARIS 20]

It seems you will need to change your facebook status back to single.

[Parkwahn 61]

Be honest with yourself !

 

She has sex for money with anyone who will pay 1500 Baht.

 

She takes big risks by not using protection.

 

Cut all contact, do not send her money and put it down to experience.

 

You are not the first and will not be the last who falls for a Thai prostitute, they are experts at telling you what you want to hear.

 

Move on and try to forget it.

Or even Phillipino ones I know a guy who dropped 60k lol

[Emdog 0]

Even if you can take the girl out of the game, it is very hard to take the game out of the girl. If you want to make a huge mistake, get hurt, lose money for no intelligent reason, by all means ignore the solid advice the other posters gave. She is a player, and you are a willing payee. Do not trap yourself with illusions. Wake up and smell the coffee.

[skiguy45 0]

Having been in your shoes, not to long ago. Do not send money and see what happens, you will know what the end game will be.

Good luck.

[InternationalTraveler 282]

Mymads,

I guess you had an unforgettable experience in Pattaya.

Met a lovely girl who suckered you in and blew you out in bubbles.

Ten out of ten for the temptress.... her acting skills need rewarding.

Send her at least 50,000 baht a month to keep her out of the discos so she can make her mother happy and keep her brother supplied with SangSom....just a suggestion.

[Patna 3,802]

The OP never replied back. That could mean only 2 things imho:

 

1. he's a troll

 

2. he realized his mistake and too ashamed to take it any further

[casinoclub 15]

^^^ it also doesn't help he was already getting flame out of gate.

 

OP maybe new to Thailand and Pattaya and have not much experience or read much about it.

[BAJA DAVE 0]

Come on she is different!!

she replied my not whole night only short time for 1500 baht

 

Short time isn't sex is it?