swinging in pattaya

[ndk123 0]

hi sorry if we have posted this in the wrong place its our first post on here we are coming to pattaya and staying at the penthouse hotel which we think is more of akin to our lifestyle first question is there a lot of swinging in pattaya or do you have to look for it is it possible to get single guys ladys or even ladyboys to join you.we really dont have a clue on the scene out there so we are doing some research before we arrive.

 

thanks in advance of any help

[bigmick 840]

I don't think you will have any problems getting single men (from many a different country) Thai ladies (so long as you pay them and their bar fines, unless you take them from Beach Rd.) Or Ladyboys - if that's what you want

[BigDUSA 71]

What ever you want is available in Pattaya. Talk to the girl and tell her or the mamasan what your looking for. Soi 6 bars are a good place to start. I like the Halifax bar I & II on soi 6. Same goes for the Queen Victoria pub. Good food at the Vic.

[Gonzo 419]

What ever you want is available in Pattaya. Talk to the girl and tell her or the mamasan what your looking for. Soi 6 bars are a good place to start. I like the Halifax bar I & II on soi 6. Same goes for the Queen Victoria pub. Good food at the Vic.

I haven't been to the Queen Victoria pub for ages. It is one of the best places to have a feed and a drink. Is Ben still running the show? I used to like the Red Point Bar when I was young.

[teelack 9,645]

Do a bit of Googling. There was a topic here a couple of years ago about a swingers hotel in Pattaya. This might be a better bet that the Penthouse.

[thechairman18 174]

Do a search on CraigsList ,

[harro1 256]

Post some pictures, you might get some offers.

[dirtydawg 11]

Many girls aren`t keen on being bfined by a farang couple, loss of face or something as it is obvious to everyone what their role in this three way situation is.

 

You won`t have a problem picking up men if that is your thing, and lesbians suddenly appear all over the place if your wife is attractive.

 

Picking up the girl of your choice for a threeway with your wife can actually be more difficult than it seems, as not every couple want to go with whoever is recommended to them by the mamasan.

[sabaidii2 171]

May I suggest Devils Den (incall or outcall)?

http://devilsdenpattaya.com/

 

 

Specifically, look at http://devilsdenpattaya.com/faq.php

"Are couples welcome?

Very much so. The original parent club of the Devil's Den was started as a safe place for couples to fulfill their fantasies involving additional partners. Couples, Swingers and single woman still represent a significant and valued part of our clientele."

Edited January 3, 2014 by sabaidii2

[dirtydawg 11]

May I suggest Devils Den (incall or outcall)?

http://devilsdenpattaya.com/

 

 

Specifically, look at http://devilsdenpattaya.com/faq.php

"Are couples welcome?

Very much so. The original parent club of the Devil's Den was started as a safe place for couples to fulfill their fantasies involving additional partners. Couples, Swingers and single woman still represent a significant and valued part of our clientele."

 

 

 

 

They appear to be related to the Eden club in Bangkok. Pretty sure that place was found to have hidden cameras all over the joint at one point.

 

Although it did also have the reputation of providing the finest sexual experiences in all of south east Asia.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited January 3, 2014 by dirtydawg

[jacko 8,822]

hi sorry if we have posted this in the wrong place its our first post on here we are coming to pattaya and staying at the penthouse hotel which we think is more of akin to our lifestyle first question is there a lot of swinging in pattaya or do you have to look for it is it possible to get single guys ladys or even ladyboys to join you.we really dont have a clue on the scene out there so we are doing some research before we arrive.

 

thanks in advance of any help

Amusing you chose the Penthouse as I believe amongst the features in the rooms, a swing can be found.

You can find anything in Pattaya.....

[sabaidii2 171]

They appear to be related to the Eden club in Bangkok. Pretty sure that place was found to have hidden cameras all over the joint at one point.

Although it did also have the reputation of providing the finest sexual experiences in all of south east Asia.

 

 

I know nothing about hidden cameras. Can you provide a link to this story? If not, you run the risk of perpetuating an urban myth.

 

Okay, I found a "reference" to what you're talking about:

http://www.worldsexguide.com/forum/showthread.php?28053-EdenClubHiddenCam

 

It's total BS.

Suggestion: next time try googling your topic first. It took me all of one try with

"eden club hidden cameras"

 

 

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And according to http://devilsdenpattaya.com/faq.php:

 

Are you associated with The Eden Club in Bangkok?

No. Many years ago, Hell Club Pattaya evolved from the Eden Club Bangkok.

The Devil's Den is located on the former site of The Hell Club. Hell Club was sold, and later re-opened under the name Devil's Den- which has no association with Eden Club. Over the years management and services philosophies of the two clubs have diverged and now have considerable differences.

Edited January 3, 2014 by sabaidii2

[darkmancomes 75]

I will volunteer to join you in a threesome but I am straight so therefore only interested in playing with your good lady!

[biggles 509]

Look at the trip reports by capdagde,he and his good lady are legends on the board. lots of good advice and some pointers to good 3 some girls.

[Sailfast 503]

Another option not mentioned... not sure if it's your cup of tea and certainly not mine, but;

 

Having been to a few "boy" gogo bars with my g/f and Thai girls in tow many of the guys on stage make it clear that they were willing to do both/all three/four of us.

 

Having been on two trips with a falang g/f, finding a good girl on girl experience for your girl might be harder than you imagine. You will find girls willing to go, but often my girl was less than impressed. Then there were those nights I passed out and they were still going strong.

 

Anyway, you will have fun.

 

I'd consider changing hotels if AT ALL possible. It really is a strange place with loads of bad reviews. I'd stay at the vault. thevaultpattaya.com The rooms are excellent, but a little pricey.

 

Also, the residence garden with it's large suite rooms and excellent room service is a good choice.

[skibum77 0]

My wife and I never have a problem picking up girls in Pattaya. From random bars, soi 6, and beach rd. We always explain exactly what we are looking for (in a combination of our limited Thai and sign language) and make sure the lady is ok with oral on a female. We have only had a couple bad experiences in many. We have spent about 12 weeks in Pattaya in the past year and have taken many girls back to our condo, or taken them upstairs on soi 6. We never go to walking street though, as there are to many certain types there we try to avoid. We occassionally have one tell us she does not go with girls/couples, but honestly that is pretty uncommon for us. My wife is mid 30's, looks 25ish, and is skinny and cute so that may have something to do with it. I imagine some of the girls are more willing to go with a younger lady, as opposed to older ones...just a guess as to why some couples here have issues with finding girls. If you look around and ask you will easily find what you are looking for...we never go to bed without at least one girl a day while there.

[Trvlr 50]

My wife and I never have a problem picking up girls in Pattaya. From random bars, soi 6, and beach rd. We always explain exactly what we are looking for (in a combination of our limited Thai and sign language) and make sure the lady is ok with oral on a female. We have only had a couple bad experiences in many. We have spent about 12 weeks in Pattaya in the past year and have taken many girls back to our condo, or taken them upstairs on soi 6. We never go to walking street though, as there are to many certain types there we try to avoid. We occassionally have one tell us she does not go with girls/couples, but honestly that is pretty uncommon for us. My wife is mid 30's, looks 25ish, and is skinny and cute so that may have something to do with it. I imagine some of the girls are more willing to go with a younger lady, as opposed to older ones...just a guess as to why some couples here have issues with finding girls. If you look around and ask you will easily find what you are looking for...we never go to bed without at least one girl a day while there.

 

It is interesting to know that there are so many girls willing to take part in a threesome. I have known some Beach Road ladies for years and usually ask them about their adventures. Only one has ever been out with a couple, and even then she had strong feelings about lesbians - did not want to take part in it.

[aussiechic 209]

What they tell you and what they do are 2 different things.

[Sailfast 503]

The "make out test" is a good one. If they kiss like they mean it they are more likely than not good to go. I'm talking full on open mouth tongue n tonsil wrestling.

 

 

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[skibum77 0]

If your girl is bi then she should be able to tell rather quickly from the other chick if she is into girls or not. My wife usually knows almost immediately if they are truly open to bi fun. She is seldom every wrong, so I always go with her gut feeling and seldom dissapointed. Btw, we never pay more than the typical prices that a guy would pay....never double. We pay bar girls about 1500ish and beach road girls 700-1000 for ST.

 

Cannot offer really offer much advice on ladyboys and guys as we are only there for the ladies. Im sure guys would be pretty easy to come by though, but I'd be discrete as you would likely be taking business away from the girls. No clue on ladyboys, but for right price I's say likely.

Edited February 3, 2014 by skibum77

[Couple6569 2]

This is our first contribution to this forum. Our mother tongue is not English, so the first apology for the syntax.

 

We are a swinger’s couple and visit Pattaya as since 2001. We love our swinger’s life in the Netherlands, sometimes in Cap d’ Agde in France and the nightlife in Thailand. We have visited Thailand so about 20 times, and many times Pattaya. But we also like Bangkok and Phuket. And of course the other parts of Thailand. J

 

In Pattaya we often visit the gogo's looking for a nice lady for a threesome. I estimate that only 10 to 20% of the ladies are bisexual ( some play if they are bisexual), and can go along with a couple. Many women do not dare make eye contact because they think my wife get angry. But fortunately we succeed making contact with a lady often.

 

If we like a lady and there is some eye contact, we are making a drinking motion and let's talk about who we are and what we want.

For a man alone it is much simpler. Many ladies we like don’t go with couples.

 

Know the gogo bar owner or friends of the lady we took away the day(s) before, then with our your next visit, often more ladies find us interesting. For us it's not so much fun to call ordinary number x with us. First eye contact and a smile is our preference. Sometimes we have a nice conversation, but if our desire emerges, we hear... ohh cannot go with woman! Very unfortunate, but we must accept it. There are also women who do not want and therefore require a very high price, but that only men will also experience.

 

If we are three weeks in Pattaya then we are still an average of 8 to 10 ladies participating. Sometimes a few time with the same lady as we like each other very much. Meanwhile, in past years we have already taken many ladies in to our hotel. No double prizes, just the barfine and the price for the lady.

 

We cannot say in which there gogo most ladies go with a couple. Every time we are in Pattaya we have again discovery along several Gogo bars to look for our dream lady. If we have a lot of success in a go-go bar and we get a month or 8 later than we often see again all new ladies. And play the game again. With some ladies are still in contact over the internet and that makes a next appointment very simple. We're always nice to the ladies and not rough, and always pay their money. Most girls want after a night with us still another time with us.

 

So for couples who want to bring an extra lady there are plenty of opportunities, but it's obviously much easier for one man alone. Do you doubt? Just go and discover Pattaya.

 

Then there are the massages, for a couple again more complicated, but also plenty of opportunities again.

 

So this is our first contribution to his forum.

 

Greetings from P and I

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[MM 6,562]

You might want to take a look at this currently being written trip report from another couple http://www.pattayatalk.com/forums/index.php?/topic/64975-DAY-5---Andy-&-Flo's-Most-Boringest-Chacha-Vicarious-Tarts-Report-August-2015

[capdagde 1,954]

"Swinging in Pattaya" - paying for s*x is not swinging (bloody awful word - says nothing). "Swingers" (cringe) look around for other people to have s*x with for free. Much easier to come to Pattaya and pay for some p*ssy. End of story.

 

All good advice above - have the courage to ask for what you want (before you spend a lot on lady drinks) and go ahead.

 

If you're looking for other couples, go to Cap d'Agde like the Dutch people above said. If you're looking for extra guys, go online (millions of them all around wherever you live).

 

The BM who talked about "loss of face" is partially correct. Flo will hold a girl's hand in Walking Street, Soi 6, Soi Honey, Soi LK Metro, but as soon as they are on another soi no more hand holding. This is (in the former) so other P4P girls can see what the score is and (in the latter) so that the general populace is not offended (public displays of affection are not socially acceptable in Thai culture even man to woman). A Thai lady we are with will, in private, invariably ask permission of my wife before each "base" - from kissing to ........ (More and more 'girl on girl' suggestion or simulation in pop videos nowadays which helps in destigmatising the practice)

 

It's always important to accept local culture rather than have the post-colonial arrogance to think of imposing one's own. Gentle is always the word.

 

Sometimes financial issues will persuade a Thai lady to "cross the line" and try girl on girl stuff for the first time. That is about coming over as nice people (not the "me me me" swinging types we are used then.....) in the first instance and sharing and encouraging her voyage of discovery - very nice.

 

No idea about ladyboys and couples. I am sure the same basic approach applies (with a few modifications!).

 

Andy Cap

Edited August 10, 2015 by capdagde

[Couple6569 2]

You might want to take a look at this currently being written trip report from another couple http://www.pattayatalk.com/forums/index.php?/topic/64975-DAY-5---Andy-&-Flo's-Most-Boringest-Chacha-Vicarious-Tarts-Report-August-2015

 

Thanks, there is still a lot to read. :-)

[Couple6569 2]

"Swinging in Pattaya" - paying for s*x is not swinging (bloody awful word - says nothing). "Swingers" (cringe) look around for other people to have s*x with for free. Much easier to come to Pattaya and pay for some p*ssy. End of story.

 

All good advice above - have the courage to ask for what you want (before you spend a lot on lady drinks) and go ahead.

 

If you're looking for other couples, go to Cap d'Agde like the Dutch people above said. If you're looking for extra guys, go online (millions of them all around wherever you live).

 

The BM who talked about "loss of face" is partially correct. Flo will hold a girl's hand in Walking Street, Soi 6, Soi Honey, Soi LK Metro, but as soon as they are on another soi no more hand holding. This is (in the former) so other P4P girls can see what the score is and (in the latter) so that the general populace is not offended (public displays of affection are not socially acceptable in Thai culture even man to woman). A Thai lady we are with will, in private, invariably ask permission of my wife before each "base" - from kissing to ........ (More and more 'girl on girl' suggestion or simulation in pop videos nowadays which helps in destigmatising the practice)

 

It's always important to accept local culture rather than have the post-colonial arrogance to think of imposing one's own. Gentle is always the word.

 

Sometimes financial issues will persuade a Thai lady to "cross the line" and try girl on girl stuff for the first time. That is about coming over as nice people (not the "me me me" swinging types we are used then.....) in the first instance and sharing and encouraging her voyage of discovery - very nice.

 

No idea about ladyboys and couples. I am sure the same basic approach applies (with a few modifications!).

 

Andy Cap

Hello Andy,

 

We saw this issue and the substance, this seemed the most at where we could respond. Swinging in Pattaya is indeed not the right word. We swing it in swingers clubs in the Netherlands, but in Pattaya is not swinging. We pay for the lady for a nice evening, and that is indeed no swinging. However, we are open minded. And that's the basis. How we play the game in Pattaya is for every couple different. Soi 6, beer bars, gogo's and even in the street, but everyone has up his own preference. I think there are more couples who are swingers and are in doubt to go for Pattaya for the fun. Maybe we can help them with their questions.