Would you bring your uk girlfriend to pattaya

[aarmitage9 0]

My first trip to pattaya I was 21 I'm now 29. I have always been hooked on the place totally addicted. I have ruined relationships back in the uk because I wouldn't settle down I didn't see a need to never have.

 

Now things are different I have been with my new girl in the uk for 1 year. She is great we have a very open relationship and she knows exactly what I have been getting up to in pattaya over my 8 years. She loves looking at my photos and and videos and check this out her dad is a pattaya addict who comes out twice a year. Now her dad is still with the mum so I have never asked what he gets up to lol.

 

So here is my question, next year is my 30th and me and 3 of my pals are coming back over to pattaya to celebrate but now my girlfriend wants to come too. Do I risk it i have nothing to hide but will I scare her off ? Will I put her dad in a difficult spot ? Will she feel uncomfortable in the surroundings ?

 

what are your thoughts

 

Cheers guys 

[frostfire 1,279]

Is she Bi, and willing to share?

 

If not... leave her at home. It will turn out to be a huge fight and hassle, or you will be stuck with only her the entire trip, which kinda does away with the entire reason to come to Pattaya. Phuket? Maybe... but Pattaya? No.

[BigusDicus 9,822]

I have never brought my wife to Pattaya. One day I would like have her accompany me to Thailand. Probably would keep her in Bangkok and Phuket, maybe a couple of days in Pattaya.

 

She knows that on occasion I am a bad boy (but only on days ending in y). She accepts it. I do my best not to rub it in her face. Unfortunately she is not bi, has no interest in joining me on any of my adventures.

 

I occasionally take her to Costa Rica where she will spend a few days or a week with me on the front or back end of my trip. That leaves me a few days to enjoy the local sights and pleasures without her.

 

Rule of Thumb: Unless she is very extremely bi and at least more than a little twisted she will not enjoy watching you interact with other girls. Even if you do not sleep with the others, she will not enjoy it. They always say they do not mind - but they do. They may not think they will - but they will. You would be traveling a longs ways and spending serious money......

 

Of course there are always exceptions to the rule, but yours or mine will never be the exception.

 

Try taking her out to a local venue and see if she is comfortable with your interaction. That will tell you quite a bit.

Edited August 23, 2011 by BigusDicus

[dirtydawg 11]

I have never brought my wife to Pattaya. One day I would like have her accompany me to Thailand. Probably would keep her in Bangkok and Phuket, maybe a couple of days in Pattaya.

 

She knows that on occasion I am a bad boy (but only on days ending in y). She accepts it. I do my best not to rub it in her face. Unfortunately she is not bi, has no interest in joining me on any of my adventures.

 

I occasionally take her to Costa Rica where she will spend a few days or a week with me on the front or back end of my trip. That leaves me a few days to enjoy the local sights and pleasures without her.

 

Rule of Thumb: Unless she is very extremely bi and at least more than a little twisted she will not enjoy watching you interact with other girls. Even if you do not sleep with the others, she will not enjoy it. They always say they do not mind - but they do. They may not think they will - but they will. You would be traveling a longs ways and spending serious money......

 

Of course there are always exceptions to the rule, but yours or mine will never be the exception.

 

Try taking her out to a local venue and see if she is comfortable with your interaction. That will tell you quite a bit.

 

As others have said, it depends on what kind of girl she is.

 

I bring my wife with me everytime and we go out hunting pussy together. I am extremely fortunate in having a wife that enjoys watching me fuck other women and who is happy to indulge in threesomes with women twenty years younger than herself.

 

But as i said, i am extremely fortunate in having a woman who enjoys the whole Pattaya experience. Would your lady be happy at one of the go-go bars with all the naked girls? Would she take it as an insult every time a bg chatted you up? Could she imagine herself enjoying a threesome with you and another woman?

 

Hey, i say give it a go. Get her drunk, talk dirty to her, and see what happens.

 

 

 

 

 

 

EDIT, Sorry, quoted the wrong post there, meant to quote the OP.

Edited August 24, 2011 by dirtydawg

[lovedog100 1,372]

NO !!

[yorta2 684]

I would also say "NO". However, if you want some advice, ask her Dad - he will surely give you some!

[dirtydawg 11]

I would also say "NO". However, if you want some advice, ask her Dad - he will surely give you some!

 

Say no and she may never allow him the freedom of regular trips to Pattaya.

 

Say yes and he may get yearly trips with the added benefit of being with the woman he loves.

[Bullfrog 2,224]

I can befinately see a problem going with your mates too. She has seen the pics and vids so knows what to expect..... but will she be more inhibited with them there? It is a shame you couldn't have gone with her alone first and tried out her reaction.

 

My opinion??

 

You are 30...put her first and leave your mates at home...they have had 9 years to join you in Patts! Get her around the bars and agogos see which she prefers....including Boyz town....Will it shock you if she says she wants you to watch a Thai boy fuck her??? Get her out here and you will learn more about her in one week than in the year you have been together...

[Montydog 135]

Thailand Yes

 

Pattaya No

[gaijin 146]

First of all I'd say you're a lucky SOB that your girl knows about you having whored around and she's ok with your past. I'd ask her if she'd be ok with seeing what you know she will see. She'll probably say yes. As for barfining any girls, well I'd stay away from that. And if she does end up going with you then ask her not to tell her dad about it. He'll likely not approve of her dating a younger version of himself. If you make her stay home, she'll hate you for it because she probably wants to go badly if she asks.

[papillon 695]

Make it a foursome with her Mum and Dad. If she plays up you can dump her with her Mum and still enjoy your trip

[danboy 151]

NO!!

[FoxtrotOscar 36]

In the words of Dr Evil "How about no! You crazy ..... bastard."

 

Every girl I tell about Thailand swoon with the thoughts of white sand beaches and palm trees. Romantic notions of "The Beach".

 

You sure this isn't your girlfriends thoughts? Sure he was once one of the lads but he's with me now. Sure his mates can run off and play with the girls but he's with me now.

 

What about the fathers cover? Have you asked what he's been telling the wife? Will the daughter want to visit that orphanage beside the golf course which obviously has a picture of him on the wall from all the donations.

 

Too much danger here!

[awesum4 2,306]

I went with my wife the first two times I went to Thailand. But we'd been together for 13 years at that stage, and had an open relationship from the start. She loved going to the bars and having fun with the girls, but would never have a 3some as she felt old and fat beside them (she is way older, and lots larger..surprise surprise). Some evenings when she was too tired to go out I hit the bars on my own, and had a few ST. I always told her where I'd been, and what I'd got up to.

Last year I went for 3 weeks with a friend, without her as she had other priorities for her spending money. We had discussed it fully before, and she was happy for me to go. Again she knows more or less what I got up to, but I've never told her anything about what my friend did as she is good friends with his partner. What he did is his business, what happens on tour stays on tour.

 

I would suggest taking your girlfriend, and having fun. But not at the same time as your friends, that could get way too messy, especially if you hang out as a group at home. Also don't talk to her father, and especially not her mother, what he gets up to is his business, nothing to do with you or your girlfriend.

Anyway have fun,

Awesum

[woody0563 805]

not a good idea she might get addicted like you

[Fornicator 106]

I would say NO WAY, leave her home and have fun with your mates in LOS

[captcraig2 120]

me thinks I would pass on bringing the GF, you will be very sorry! she will see what a perv you really are (kinda like the rest of us) and will throw it back in your face sooner or later!

[Jomtien Joker 0]

This LOS addiction may be the most powerful on earth, worse than drugs, at least for me. At 50, I can't even bear the thought of hanging out with, and especially, having sex with a woman my age. So what will the rest of my life be like ? I suppose it will mean being alone mostly. And paying for trips with all my spare money. If you have a good woman, get over this LOS fantasy !

[Norfloxacin400 87]

OP, only you know the answer to this question. you know her better than us,

[jacko 8,762]

Falang women are cunning, I would be very very wary of this.

 

You will have more money to spend and have a much better time without her, fetch her a silk dressing gown and a hand painted fan for the bedroom wall and leave it at that.

And do you think your 3 mates will enjoy having your girlfriend tag along with you? FFS!

Edited August 24, 2011 by jacko

[dirtydawg 11]

Sorry, but the guys urging him to pick his mates over his woman are guys living on their own.

 

Never pick your mates over the woman you love, as it is the road to loneliness.

 

Your genuine mates will always be there, so you can afford to ignore them for this trip.

 

Bring your girlfriend, give her a feel for the whole Pattaya scene, and see how she responds.

 

You might be pleasantly surprised.

[jacko 8,762]

Sorry, but the guys urging him to pick his mates over his woman are guys living on their own.

 

Never pick your mates over the woman you love, as it is the road to loneliness.

 

Your genuine mates will always be there, so you can afford to ignore them for this trip.

 

Bring your girlfriend, give her a feel for the whole Pattaya scene, and see how she responds.

 

You might be pleasantly surprised.

I don't live on my own!

He said he was supposed to be going with 3 mates and maybe the GF, looks to me like he picked 'mates' already.

She is just butting in.

 

I would say mates or girlfriend but not both.

Edited August 25, 2011 by jacko

[Shit_Happens 31]

I would also say "NO". However, if you want some advice, ask her Dad - he will surely give you some!

 

Best course of action in my opinion.

[danboy 151]

Never pick your mates over the woman you love, as it is the road to loneliness.

 

I don't remember the OP saying he loved the woman. One could argue that if he did, he wouldn't travel to Thailand to sleep with prostitutes.

[joekicker 53]

I don't remember the OP saying he loved the woman. One could argue that if he did, he wouldn't travel to Thailand to sleep with prostitutes. whistling

 

I don't understand the connection. As the noted philosopher Christiana Turner noted, What's Love Got to Do With It?

 

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